Log in

View Full Version : I dont know what to think...

tomboysk8r1314
September 15th, 2010, 09:29 PM
Ok so just like 10 minutes ago my bestest guy buddi told me that he likes me. 1. This is like the first time a guys liked me 2. I dont know my feelings for him 3. Im all confused

So please, i already told him i dont feel the same but im having second thouhts. Maybe i do like him? Uhg help please!
Nevfx
September 16th, 2010, 03:35 PM
Just think clearly. When you think of him, what do you feel, how do you see him? Do you enjoy being around him, and more than just as a friend?

Your having second thoughts. Tells me your first answer was an impulse answer and you may have feelings for him.
Aspiringanonymous
September 17th, 2010, 10:37 PM
Acknowledge your confusion and take thing as they come. Be open, but be observant at every step. Don't attempt to definitely figure anything out right now - you'll just confuse yourself more. If you wish to take back what you said to him, by all means you can - exposure and experience is one of the best ways through which to reach clarity, the important thing is to not approach it with expectations.
The Joker
September 18th, 2010, 12:22 AM
Were you interested in dating him, before he told you that he liked you?
tomboysk8r1314
September 18th, 2010, 08:18 AM
Were you interested in dating him, before he told you that he liked you?

Yes, i did...and well we're dating now (:
Kaius
September 18th, 2010, 08:25 AM
Yes, i did...and well we're dating now (:

Congrats :)
Azunite
September 18th, 2010, 02:57 PM
Ahhh...
Remember few weeks ago, when I told you "If you continue being yourself, people will love you eventually..."
Remember that I supported what you were and said to continue and not surrender and again and again be yourself?
:D
Well, why would you need advise, go for it !
Billy15
September 18th, 2010, 10:13 PM
Please don't take this wrong but hey, don't tell us, tell him. If your having second thoughts and you think that you might really like this guy the way he likes you, let him know, take a stab at happiness.
tomboysk8r1314
September 19th, 2010, 09:41 PM
Please don't take this wrong but hey, don't tell us, tell him. If your having second thoughts and you think that you might really like this guy the way he likes you, let him know, take a stab at happiness.

Guess you didnt read the above post cuz i did mention that we're dating now....