My dad :/

[laurita_21]

So sometimes when I go out with my dad he stares at women in a very pervy kinda way and im just there :/
But the problem is sometimes he starts looking at me and he thinks I don't see him but I can actually see him staring at me.
And a a few weeks ago we went out to eat and there was a group of boys and well they just smiled at me and I smiled back, then my dad gave them this really dirty look and he tried to pull me close to him and it was really awkard and uncomfortable and I think he tried to touch me aswell :confused: I just quickly got away from him.
He actually freaks me out! He does some other stuff to that I won't talk about but the point is he's always perving on me and he tries to talk about sex and how he doesn't want me dating any boys. So I don't know what to do, he has never done anything serious but this makes me sick and I just don't want to live with him anymore! I think my mum notices this too and she has done nothing about it, it's been going on for a while now but it's just making me sick and Im scared he's going to do something horrible one day. But he doens't do this to my sister it's just me... I don't know what to do :(
Thanks if you read this I know it was really long! sorry :whoops:

[Nevfx]

So, your Dad definatly tries to touch you? Or you just think?

Either way, raise this issue with your Mom. Tell her how disturbed it makes you.

If he is touching you, its a criminal offence and he needs to be reported.

No Dad wants his daughter dating boys, I know my sister was banned from boys until she is 25, (a rule she broke XD), but if he is touching you... thats wrong.

[laurita_21]

So, your Dad definatly tries to touch you? Or you just think?

Either way, raise this issue with your Mom. Tell her how disturbed it makes you.

If he is touching you, its a criminal offence and he needs to be reported.

No Dad wants his daughter dating boys, I know my sister was banned from boys until she is 25, (a rule she broke XD), but if he is touching you... thats wrong.

Well he has definatly tried to touch me.
I did try talking to mum about it once but she did absoloutly nothing and she though I was just being paranoid :/
Im just scared of what would happen if I did tell, my mum would hate me and I know because of what has happened before.
I did tell my sister about it and she looks out for me sometimes but she can't be there all the time to protect me. I know no dad want's he's daughter dating boys but he talks about it and he get angry just thinking about it and he yells at me -_- I know it's wrong I just wish he would stop...

[Nevfx]

You have to keep telling people.

Dont just sit there worrying about what might happen, you cant just accept this. If your Mom fails to take you seriously, find a way to prove it or tell someone else. Or even have your sis be there to support you when talking to your Mom.

[Trickster]

You cant wait for something to happen. If he really did try to touch you intentially and not by mistake then try to put up a mental barrier from him.
Dads are SOOO nervous when their little girls become...active. So they will be paranoid and try to educate you and think all boys are scum. They trust you, they dont trust the boys.
I can see why your mom may be skeptical, but you should definantly keep your guard up and if you dont feel right and feel something amiss you have to get help before something happens

[Andrew.6]

you should also talk to him about how you feel, and I think every father is like that with his little girl that's all maybe he just care about you very much and he doesn't what you to get hurt

[Art_dude]

Well he has definatly tried to touch me.
I did try talking to mum about it once but she did absoloutly nothing and she though I was just being paranoid :/
Im just scared of what would happen if I did tell, my mum would hate me and I know because of what has happened before.
I did tell my sister about it and she looks out for me sometimes but she can't be there all the time to protect me. I know no dad want's he's daughter dating boys but he talks about it and he get angry just thinking about it and he yells at me -_- I know it's wrong I just wish he would stop...


I verrrrryyyy highly doubt that your mother would EVER hate you under any circumstances, particularly when you tell her your own bloody father has been touching you. I'm pretty sure she thinks you're paranoid because she loves you so much - the idea of her own husband who she trusts and loves violating her own child is a very hard pill to swallow.

Like Nevfx has said, you just have to keep telling people. This is serious and it needs to be addressed. you don't deserve this. I think Nevfx's idea is a really good - try having your sister there for support. Your mother will have to acknowledge what you're saying when both of her own daughters are bringing it up. I'm so sorry hun :( Jeez your dad would kill me xD
I love you <3 :hug:

[brennaluvv]

Don't wait for anything bad to happen, if your mom isn't listening, talk to friends about it, or even confront your dad.

[1_21Guns]

dont be so fast to question his motives, dads are naturally over protective,
however it does appear he isn't looking at you in a daughter point of view,
if you ever have friends over, ask if they notice it,
ask your mum if she thinks its odd,
ask teachers etc,
don't wait for him to do something serious if he's going to,
at the end of the day it's making you feel uncomfortable, which he shouldnt be.

[Nevfx]

dont be so fast to question his motives, dads are naturally over protective,


I thought it was just that, until she said he "definatly wanted to touch me".