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StarryEyedSurprise
September 14th, 2010, 06:08 AM
So I guess this is an announcement type thing. But Some of you might know that I considered myself a Lesbian but I have realized that I am Bi. I never wanted to give guys a chance because I thought they would judge me but after being hit on a few times at school I've realized wow Guys arent that bad at all and in my head I thought wow that guy who hit on me is kinda cute. So yeah As of now I like girls more but I am in the process of liking guys too.

Has anyone ever felt confused about their orientation?
nick
September 14th, 2010, 10:01 AM
Has anyone ever felt confused about their orientation?
All the time, but I dont really believe in rigid categories anyway. Just go by what feels right for you and dont worry too much about the labels.
welcome_to_chaos
September 14th, 2010, 04:53 PM
yes very much so..which is y i just choose to stay in the middle. i feel its better to get the best of both ya know?
StarryEyedSurprise
September 14th, 2010, 08:15 PM
yes very much so..which is y i just choose to stay in the middle. i feel its better to get the best of both ya know?

Yeah thats is true.
disassociation2016
September 14th, 2010, 09:10 PM
The way I see it is don't reject guys because you don't want sex with them at least try and make relationships with both sexes I'm sure guys would make you a better person and also better rounded in terms of relationships.
StarryEyedSurprise
September 14th, 2010, 11:12 PM
The way I see it is don't reject guys because you don't want sex with them at least try and make relationships with both sexes I'm sure guys would make you a better person and also better rounded in terms of relationships.

This is also true.

Thanks for the advice :)
DarkHorses
September 14th, 2010, 11:16 PM
I just have to say that I think bisexual people are lucky, they get the best of both worlds. :P I'm glad that you feel you've finally discovered your orientation, hopefully you're able to be happy this way. :)
Nevfx
September 15th, 2010, 08:34 AM
From when I was 16-18 I considered myself "curiours". I wasnt decided and was very confused. But I realised at 18, when every single girl who walked past I found amazingly hot and never even noticed other guys, I realised I was straight. XD