Confused

[Akcid]

From a young age I have always been attracted to girls (had crushes on, gone out with etc) and at some points have had the odd 'what if im gay' question but usually dismissed it after a day or two.

I've had one very serious relationship which lasted for a year and a half and we had sex a lot and I enjoyed it, having sex almost everytime i saw her. I have not had sex sine we broke up, about 1 year ago and am feeling very confused.

I don't have that same sex drive which i used to when I look at girls, and im very unsure about who I want to ask out and have raised the question of wether or not I am gay. I've had this thought stuck in my had for the past month, non stop and feel uncomfortable with it as I do not want to be gay. i have never masturbated thinking about men, nor have i had intense feelings for anyone of the same sex as me. I don't know what I am as I want to have sex but at the same time don't and it's really starting to bother me. Is this normal? and how can i help my situation?

Thanks

[nick]

There's nothing in what you've said that makes it sound as if you are either gay or bi, it just sounds as if your sex drive is a bit reduced atm. I wouldnt worry about it, when you meet the next right person I'm sure it will come back soon enough.

[Akcid]

They Confusion really comes from the lack of sex and that I've started to notice if men i see on TV are attractive and the low sex drive doesn't help either..

[Nevfx]

You sound straight to me.

As for the lowered sex drive, its obvious to me. You were in a relationship when you had a lot of sex. So basically, you arent getting so horny when looking at them because you have already had sex.

Like me for example, before I lost my virginity, ever girl I saw I wanted. Now I can look at girls and not feel the urge to to get to horny.