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sydneyisawesome
September 11th, 2010, 06:00 PM
so i know this friend...who told me hes bi..but he doesnt know i am too
should i tell him? also i wanna possibly experiment with him? what road should i take to not making it awkward?

blingibong
September 11th, 2010, 06:07 PM
well man tbh... its upto you really it all depends on how you feel about it... you might become great friends or even more if you make that right move you know... i can only tell you what might happen not what you need to do!

follow your heart for this one man not your head!!

Giles
September 11th, 2010, 07:07 PM
Well if he felt confident enough to confide in you. Then I would imagine that you would be Ok telling to him. That is if you feel that he's trustworthy.

Brighter.Tomorrow
September 11th, 2010, 07:09 PM
There's no harm in telling him. In any case that may open up lots of chances you may or may not want to take.
If he told you, then he'd be perfectly fine with you telling him.

Judas
September 11th, 2010, 07:34 PM
If he told you, you should tell him too. Since you want to experiment, this can be a start.

Normie
September 11th, 2010, 07:40 PM
Go for it...tell him!!!

zander
September 11th, 2010, 07:54 PM
yeah i would tell him for sure

Derek_001
September 11th, 2010, 08:11 PM
im strait but i gotta yeah.. tell him n it will most likely help him feel better 4 himself too

yeahitsbrandon
September 11th, 2010, 08:15 PM
go for it bro!

usedtobejv
September 11th, 2010, 08:36 PM
Just tell him and see his reaction

Dean1
September 11th, 2010, 08:57 PM
You need to be in a conversation with him about sexuality and s stuff then tell him.

Aspiringanonymous
September 12th, 2010, 12:05 AM
Boys' Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

CuriousDestruction
September 12th, 2010, 02:43 AM
well first off, we can't tell you to experiment, it's against the VT rules. but i can tell that it's totally normal. as for whether to tell him or not, i say go for it. it sounds like it wouldn't be awkward at all.

flyykidd
September 12th, 2010, 04:06 AM
Go for it! :)

Nate027
September 19th, 2010, 08:23 PM
Tell him how you feel about what he told you. Show support I guess

Heath
September 29th, 2010, 04:02 PM
Say to him: "hey, remember when you told me you were bi?.....I should have told you then, but I was scared.....I'm bi too."

Then let him respond - the ice should be broken at that point - then whatever happens, happens. My bet is that something happens.:yeah:

Fishes
August 14th, 2011, 05:57 PM
tell him ur bi it could be a great time for both of u

Maxxie
August 14th, 2011, 09:39 PM
Tell him you're bi. Seeing as how he's bi as well, there's really no harm that could come of it. Who knows, this might lead to something?

Best of luck to ya :D

nameless12
August 15th, 2011, 12:32 AM
well i think you should just tell him that your bi :) if he told you then why shoudlnt you tell him??.
as for the experimenting stuff, wahtever you try or tell him just do it slowly, dont bring it up fast, good luck mate ;)

Kujiro
August 15th, 2011, 12:50 AM
It took him a great step to tell it to you, risking being despised, or deserted by you.
Whether you tell him your orientation is up to you, I see no harm in being open to him as well.

It will set a footing for you to come out as well.
Experimentation can come later after both parties are more used to each other being more opened.

Nonetheless it's always good to have a supportive friend, who is able to communicate and share on a similar level to.
It's good if the both of you able to take a step above friendship, but for now it's better to take things a step at a time, there's not a need to rush causing awkwardness towards the end. :)

Good luck
*smile*