Homosexual

[Kontroll]

The other day i was chilling at my friends house, and he turned on some porn on his computer, and that was all good, i have nothing against porn i watch it on my own time, but then he started like, rubbing his dick in his pants and getting really weird, and then he asked me if i wanted to jack him off...
I know this kid pretty well, me and him have been good friends for 3 years now, ive been to countless parties with this kid, and he's hooked up with many girls and i know he's not gay... but when this happend, i thought he was kidding, and i was like "yeah right", idr exactly what i said, i honestly dont, things along the line of "man shut up" and laughing it off, but now he seems offended, and i feel bad, but on the other hand, i dont wanna zoom into appologizing to him, because i think he might do something weird and take it the wrong way and think that i would want to jack him off, and i under no circumstances want this kid thinking that, i would never do anything with a guy, i am so uncomfortable with even my shirt off and im with another guy... But again, i dont wanna like, lose this friend cause he is a cool kid, but again, i dont want him to take my appology the wrong way and all this crazy shit could happen, and then i dont want him talking to other people about it cause thats gonna make me seem weird, what do you think i should do?

[Dalman]

I think you should not just apologize, but explain basically what you just said. It seems you know what you want, but not sure what to say. I would just think bout the words and then say it, just go for it.

[Dean1]

I would tell him you thought it was a joke and tell him not to be affended, ask him why he asked you to do that. Tell him that you find it uncomfortable.
Hope this helps

[townpartier56]

Just explain to him that you are not comfortable jacking him off

[Judas]

Tell him that you thought it was a joke and you didn't want to offend him. Apologize but state that you find it uncomfortable.

[Lights]

It seems evident to me that this boy's hormones got the better of him and he got a little over-excited with you. I'm glad you understand that this doesn't make him gay.

If you apologise to him, I can 90% assure you that he will not try anything on you again. He'll know not to unless you show signs of wanting to. That would have been a really embarrassing experience for him. I do think you should apologise, and I think you have nothing to worry about.

[Nicky97]

DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING !!!!

And be careful that nothing changes in the way you act toward him. If anything, let your actions reassure him that the sillyness didnt seem strange to you and that it just never happened, there is absolutely no difference in the way you feel around him. But say nothing, dont try to fix it. You can only make it worse.

Just my opinion.

[oreolover]

ya just say that ur just messing around and ask him y he wants u to jerk him off. and tell him that you dont feel comfortable about jerking him off. if hes a real friend he will understand and if hes not a real friend then hes not worth ur time and energy

[ben...]

Just tell him that your not like that, but your not mad. Just not interested :)

[myskias]

apologise to him and make him feel okay with it. just tell him that youre uncomfortable and stuff and that you really dont wanna do it but you are okay with his curiousities. you dont want to make him hate himself because hes probably regretting asking you :/ and that must be shitty for him

[Andrew.6]

I don't kow but maybe he is the one who needs to apologize 'cause he ask you for something that may or may not offend you. he ask you for something that is too much for a normal friendship and I know you don't what to end the friendship but maybe he is ashamed of what he did and won't try to apologize 'cause he is scare.

[crazyfury]

Tell him, that you don't play spank the monkey with other boys. I only do myself.

[yeahitsbrandon]

Just tell him thats not your style but you still wanna be friends just not in that way

[VeniVidiVici]

if you could explain it to us, explain it to him. For all you know he is gay, and if you are good enough friends he will understand

[trackstar9.875]

First of all: Ever heard of a "run on" sentence?

Just tell this KID (as you refer to him) that masturbation is something you're not comfortable doing in the company of others.

That way, you're not apologizing, but you're still getting your point across.

[Apollo.]

Apologise but make it clear you dont want to do anything with him also make it clear that you wouldnt J/O with any guy not just him