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Jagster
September 9th, 2010, 10:05 PM
Seeing as I couldn't decide which forum to post this in, I have decided to put it in this forum.

Today, I got one kid in trouble for gay bashing me on the bus, even if he thought I wouldn't be able to hear it. So what happened was that OT (one of the security guards), and Eddy (the other security guard) took the aggressors and the bystanders and put them in a room. OT and Eddy interrogated them on who did it. (A kid named Cody did it). All of the bystanders except 1 got out for the time being.

As I was heading for my bus, I saw the last bystander and Cody sitting in a respective chair. They were both leaning forward and noticed me as I walked by because they obviously knew I told. (Quite frankly, I was defending my rights as a Bisexual, and so was the last bystander). Cody fessed up to doing it to OT and OT let the last bystander go. OT walked him to the bus. I still don't know what is happening to Cody.

In the middle of this, somewhere in the middle of this, two of the bystanders passed me in the hall (in a very short time increment between each other). Their facial features were quite noticeable because both of their cheeks were red as roses. I can tell that OT's and Eddy's interrogation had scared them out of their socks. All the two bystanders that passed me did to me was a quick glance and faced forward again and kept on walking.

Just by the complete thought of this has led me to believe that sooner or later, the whole school won't want me around any more. It actually did make me break down and cry about it.

While I was putting my homework back in my backpack after I completed it, I was talking to one of the bystanders that passed me in the hallway. She was asking me all sorts of questions on the subject of me crying. She told me she would defend me and my sexual orientation.

After I got off the bus, the bystander who got walked to the bus by OT made a motion to go back across the crosswalk. He told me that he's most likely going to be grounded. So after I eat my dinner (which I have yet to do), I'm going to go over to his house and tell his step mom the whole thing so he can get closer to being ungrounded.

Oh, but don't think this is getting any easier than it is right now.

My mom came home somewhere around 6 PM and demanded that I tell her the whole story. Which I barely managed to do.

My dad came home later thereafter and had a conversation with me. It turns out that I'm in a bit of trouble for invading someone's (the other bystander that passed me in the hall) personal space by hugging them. I was unaware of what the district's bus stop rules were.

So, FML.

disassociation2016
September 11th, 2010, 10:44 PM
Sounds more like a prison then a school. You should defend yourself I do think a guard is necessary if things get physical, but if you can't tell someone that you don't want to talk to them or that they're wrong then maybe coming out was a bad idea. On the last bit I don't think it should be up to your parents or the school whether or not an innocent hug should be violation of personal space, at the same time most schools do prohibit any touching between students.

Jagster
September 12th, 2010, 12:37 AM
It seriously sucks.