Need help plz

[minime]

Hi guys im new i just found this site from an internet buddy and ive got a big problem so here it goes...Me and my friend were watching porn at his house no1 was home so were started to j/o i was so horny but im str8 but i just had the biggest urge to stroke his penis so i went for it he immediately moved away called me a homo and then the next day at school he told everybody i have no friends and all the other homosexual guys look at me funny but i just dont know what to do my life is a disaster right now some1 help please

[emt.Cam]

You're young and your body is changing. Your situation is not out of the ordinary to the point where you are a straight male; however, you had the urge to stroke another mans penis. There's nothing wrong with the feeling that you got because your body is changing and a lot of people believe that there is a "curious" stage where you want to experiment and compare with others your age and such. It appears like you acted quickly and unexpectedly towards your friend and he obviously didn't feel comfortable. I recommend you talk to him privately and tell him how you feel and explain to him that this was your first time -if it really was- and you reacted wrong. You might have scared him off but just for next time you know to take things slower. Just because you are curious doesn't mean they want anything more physical than masturbating together. It wasn't right for him to go around saying you have no friends and that you're homosexual, but he obviously felt threatened when made your move. Feel free to PM me with any more advice or questions.

[Skumar824]

Ur just curious and u have to explain to ur friend that this kinda stuff is normal for teens

[michew]

first how did your friend start j/o with you second tell the people he told he was lyeing to cover up the fact that he was doing it not you or just tell them the truth your completly normal

[Judas]

You couldn't control yourself. As a teen, your hormones take over you, especially when you are aroused. You were "curious" in experimenting, and believe or not, many guys are so too. But are you homosexual really? If you aren't, then you should confront him and tell everyone the truth. Also, masturbating together should be private between you two, not spread across the whole school. In a way, he is now bullying you and invading your privacy. This needs to be reported. If he feels very uncomfortable about it, tell him that you are sorry. But he was wrong too to spread this and turn everyone against you.

[Inconvenience]

i won't judge u're right or wrong about having such urge. what i wanna tell you is how to rescue yourself from the situation you are in right now. how did u react when the whole school pointed at you callin a homo? what you could do was gettin angry in front of everyone's eye, screamin "who the hell invented this whole story?" then u'd go to ur friend and make him regret his behaviour, saying that u have done nothing like this and that just because of the little discordance you 2 had the day before (which you didn't really have) he shouldn't make up this story, attempting to destroy ur reputation.

well, i know it's a lie, but at least public would believe it ;)

nobody's gonna stop callin u homo at school if u tell em u really had an urge to stroke his thing. so do what i told ya. and this friend of yours isn't really a friend. if he were, he wouldnt make things clear in school ;)

[The Dark Lord]

Invent a story about him, if you have lost all your friends, then go on the attack and made him feel how you feel

[Noobzilla]

he would probably going through puberty as well and just doesnt have a broad understanding of puberty and from his reaction and actions is very immature, but this situation would be VERY hard to deal with. in my opinion dont give a guilty reaction to this, id treat it was a rumour and say you didnt do it, dont exaggerate and just be casual, give a direct "no" not like everyone would believe one person or even care, when he gets older he will relise how big an asshole he is or not but if he doesnt he will have trouble fitting in to certain area's of modern society.

Im being rather vague but i hope you understand what i mean

[shartalot17]

you will be able to find out who your real friedns are because they will be the ones who are like that doesnt matter.

[zach_15]

I wouldn't worry about it. It's school someone else will do something and everyone will forget about u.

[Lights]

Hey, if he was so straight and bothered that you were supposedly gay, he wouldn't have had the guts to wank with you. It seems apparent to me that this guy was curious about other boys. Wanking is usually a private activity so he probably wanted something to happen; he just didn't know how to react when it did.
If he did go round spreading you were a 'homo' then you're better off without him. No real friend would ever do that.

Don't show people you're bothered. If you give any sort of reaction, it shows you've listened and they're reaching you. No reaction leaves them feeling bored and defeated. You should get the last laugh. ;)

[Hoshwaa]

Schoolkids are horrible. You're in a nasty situation. I think that pretending the rumour isn't true won't work, idiots will believe any rumour that comes there way. What you have to do is confront him. Try and apologise, and get him to say that the rumour was false. If it comes from the primary source, people will think that he was lying. Otherwise, i would try and get him back. By any means neccessary. He sounds like a dick.

[Rosss]

i have been watching porn with friends before, i wanted to just grab his cock so bad
i of course had to resist, then, we were wresteling later on, i felt it
i got a boner sooo quick

[Timma]

Dude you fucked shit up!... if your in middle school try and go to a different high school then public because i know kids and once something like that happens Your fucked...sorry but you are... unless you do 1 of these things

1.find someone you hate and beat the shit of out em...and tell everyone that the same thing is coming there way if they dont beleive you

2.Say your gay

3.Go to a different school

[minime]

ok guys thanks for the advice but today at school was awfull every1 just kept going on then some kid spit in my face and said do u like it homo and i ended up fighting him i got a 3 day suspension(he got 1 day...) but my parents arnt allowing me on the computer i snuck on my mom fell asleep i will check back tomorrow but thanks this isnt good tho :(

[townpartier56]

Talk to him

[oreolover]

haha school is terrible i agree its terrible. dont invent a story its only going down to his level or worse. just dont about it and its school so someone will doo something stupid and they will forget about u lol :)

[Jamarama]

Say he's lying because you fell out with him. Simple as that :p

[Nevfx]

Your just curios, no harm in that.

[LittleMonsterMike]

Damage control i know how to handle this. GET A GIRLFRIEND! seriously if you get a girl or at least say you like a girl people will be thrown off. Getting a good shade is a good idea. it;s work for some of my friends several time. Or another plain go completely psycho. Start acting really weird and eventually people will look at you differently and thing will change.
if non of that work ...your screwed dude sorry :(

[Nevfx]

Just tell everyone the truth, that your not gay.