apparently i ruin lives.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

fuck this fucking cunt><
sry. i'm so mad and depressed right now.

ok so my dads had this gf, maria, for like my whole life.
i've NEVER liked her.
she used to live with us but she moved out.
so her and my dad are cooking thanksgiving dinner.
and my dad tells me to bring down my dishes
and i said i already did (because i did)
so maria says you missed some (which i probably did by accident)
so i said " so i guess the sign on my door saying stay out means nothing?"
and she says "yes "
so i said "dont tell me yes, you dont even live here"
so she starts freaking out says fuck this i'm leaving i'm not taking this.
so my dad asks me to apoligize
and i said no because i'm not going to apoligize for just saying something thats true.

and he says "thanks for making my life miserable"
so i said "fine fuck that, i'm not eating dinner, so its stupid to leave jsut because of me, fucking happy?"
and now i'm upstairs.
your welcome for making your life suck dad.

[Bobby]

Tegan... they don't love you and to tell the turth I don't think they are very good parents....you deserve a lot more than that crap.

[R_master]

eh its sounds like you all made a big deal over somthing trivial, just apologize. maybe if you were nicer to your dads gf then she wouldnt act like such a bitch. from what you posted it looks like its all your fault and you overreacted.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i'm hardley ever mean to her,
it wasnt anything seriouse untill she said fuck it i'm out of her
i didnt even say anything very mean till she freaked out.
i'm not going to apoligize because all i did was point out that she doesnt live here.

[mRojas2000]

Well, now you gotta accept that shes part of your family, and sooner or later she will move in with ya... just accept her, as how she is... maybe she was feeling really good, and started to think you guys were having a good relationship (I mean as friends), and then, you come, and blow it off by saying "you don't even live here..."

I don't know since I don't even live with ya, but that might be it.... just apologize to her, for saying something that was wrong, not because of being mean.

[Jean Poutine]

My tip is, no matter who is right or wrong, you're stuck living with your dad for now and his girlfriend might move in, I guess, so you might as well just apologise to get a liveable atmosphere back. It's not fun to be angry with people you see every day.

[Hyper]

I havent read about Maria.. But my father has had a new 'companion' for 6 years

She is kind of jealous.. And she gets offended realy easly over realy seemingly pointless things.. It more just seems to me by your post that you just over did it? Just apologize and make everybodys life easier..

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i'm not apioligizeing, everyones already gotten over it, i was just upset at the time at my dad for saying i make his life miserable, that is what the post is about.
i dont apoligize when i didnt do anything wrong jsut because my parents want me to, i learned thats not the right thing to do from living with my moms abusive bf basile

[mas[q]uerade]

Well if everyone has gotten over it, then I would just put it behind me. We all make mistakes. She doesn't sound like someone I would get along with very well either.
I guess the best thing to do now is just let bygons be bygons.

[JunkBondTrader]

Damn! They saound like arseholes. I'd say just ignore them but this can be difficult if they're this big a part of your life. I've had similar problems with my uncle who lives with me. I got over my anger by spraying his big bald head with Windex. A little revenge can make things feel much better. Trust me on that.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

LMAO spraying his head with windex, you crack me up:P