Help I'm so confused

[Confused10]

Im confused. I have watched gay porn before but have jerked off to it. Later I get discussed but then do it again. I like girls but I dont know if Im bi-curious or straight. Also I was almost raped but my bestfriend a boy when I was younger and he touched me and he forced me to touch him but when I think of it today it's gross! I don't want to be bisexual I want to be straight.

[Judas]

What porn you watch doesn't determine your sexuality. Nor does sexual abuse. You can only know truly what your sexuality is by understanding which gender you are attracted to romantically, not purely in a sexual way only.

[Confused10]

Mhmmm... Thanks I guess. :whoops:

[Spoookster]

Yeah, ur just aroused of some things.. that does not make u gay. If ur emotional attracted to someone in my thinking i thing it's gay. U know.. if a gay guy has sex with a woman, that makes him straight ? NO! Bcuz he's not attracted to her...

... Don't worry ur ok.. and curious..

[Dalman]

I agRee with Spookster. Also don't think of it as gay or straight. Most of us are shades on the middle. You have time to figure it out....just relax and learn from all ur experiences.

[ivanori]

Perhaps you are bi/gay but you're disgusted by it due to the fact that you were almost raped when young.
I'm not an expert, but that's what came to mind.

[ivanori]

Perhaps you are bi/gay but you're disgusted by it due to the fact that you were almost raped when young.
I'm not an expert, but that's what came to mind.

[Randomchaos]

Hormones hormones horrrrrrrrrmones! Now, of you can answer these questions with a yes, then you are bi/bi-curious

Would you kiss a guy(with tounge)?
Would you hug a guy(romantically?
Are you attracted to a guy(emotionally and physically)?

[shartalot17]

watching gay porn doesnt make you gay.

[The Dark Lord]

what kind of porn you jerk off to doesn't decide your sexaulity. At the end of the day, we are all horny teenagers, is there anything we wouldn't off to?

[paul48]

probably the whole younger experience plays into this.

[KillerKing]

Actually i don't think the sexual experience when you were younger does play a part in this. I think you would of come to this 'dilema' anyway because every boy does. I think the reason you are disgusted by it is perhaps the fact you didn't like nor enjoy what happened when you were younger and now your afraid of such things. Never judge what you are now on what happened in the past.

[Kontroll]

yeah, youre probably straight, you didnt want to have that childhood experience, it just happend, and as some other people said on here, teenagers will jack off to anything, straight or possibly even gay porn, so i think youre fine

[Nicky97]

This is awkward. It may make you feel better to tell you that the type of porn you prefer is no sign of you sexual leanings, but that makes no sense in my book.

It is a scientifically accepted idea that sexual orientation is a sliding scale, not a black-or-white label. We do well to impose control over our public behavior, much less over our subconscious thoughts.

Dont sweat it. Live your life the way you want to. Avoid other peoples labels. Be happy with who you are and how you live your life. Enjoy...

[michew]

porn doesnt determine any thing if you want to be straight you most likly are and avoid that friend

[Rosss]

curiousity, you will figure it out sometime soon
dont worry

[whatup]

i was the same way and im str8, dont worry you will be fine