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galigator8509
September 8th, 2010, 10:03 AM
I tend to often have those dreams where you wake up and say: "Oh, thank goodness, it was only a dream."
I have had dreams about being stabbed, and I have dreams of all sorts of things. Including: My aunt, and uncle talking to me again, and so on.

I had a dream just last night that I was stabbed at our fair, in the grandstands, that later went onto something else, that then went onto my uncle, having sex with me, and I was trying to figure out how I was going to tell my boyfriend about it.

Well luckily, I woke up to my boyfriend getting out bed, and me waking up being extremely thankful that it was only a dream. I didnt get to see how the dream ended, but at that point I really cared less.

I just dont know why I have such weird dreams like this, and so many other things.

Sorry, I just had to vent.

P.S. I was sexually assualted, by this particular uncle that was in my dream with me, and ever since it happened, him, and my aunt, wont talk to my family because "im lying, and its my fault." but I also have dreams of them forgiving me, and us getting together and doing things, so I dont know...UGH.

Kaius
September 8th, 2010, 10:13 AM
Things that have happened to us in the past can play a part in nightmares, its quite common. If the incident is playing on your mind quite a lot, which i can imagine it is, it will be a thing that crops up in nightmares and things, because it still scares and upsets you. People often dream about things they want, which may answer as to why you're dreaming of your uncle and aunt talking to you again. These kind of dreams will more likely happen when you're more stessed than usual. Try doing some relaxing things before you go to sleep at night. Have a warm bath and watch a movie you enjoy, or read a book. Although these dreams will be quite traumatic for you, you just have to keep reminding yourself that the dreams are not real, and the past is the past. If you need to talk at all feel free to pm/email me at the address in my signature. I'm happy to help

Silentsilver
September 16th, 2010, 01:49 PM
A dream is a reflection of our conscious and it can replay whats happened in the past. I had one of my best friends commit suicide right in front of me and to this day i still wake up screaming. Try and think happy thoughts and dont stress yourself you this can help alot!