lil bro talkin to me when im showering

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im 17 and ive got a 7 year old brother. sometimes when im in the shower he comes and talks to me while brushing his teeth e.t.c.. our shower door is just plain glass so he can see everything. im not bothered cuz hes my bro and he doesnt deliberatly look but i feel weird sometimes cuz i dont know if anyone else my age thinks its normal.

[Starlight Blaze]

Well I sat and talked to my friend (18 y o) while he took a shower but there was a curtain to hide him

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Well I sat and talked to my friend (18 y o) while he took a shower but there was a curtain to hide him

There aint in a curtain in my bathroom, just a glass screen.

[Starlight Blaze]

I have that at home and my lil bro doesn't do that (he's 12) we think it's kinda weird
But 7 and 17 is different than 12 and 14

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well the position the shower is you cant see anything if you walk in to the room but i dont know what he can see on way out and he has only done it a few times. its not pervy or anythin is it?

[TySpeedy]

I don't think it's that bad... As long as it doesn't go any further. Like not with you, but with him. But if he isn't bothered by it, then you shouldn't either. Plus it shouldn't matter what other people your age think... It's your brother for goodness sake! There's nothing wrong, and they shouldn't care. [:

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I don't think it's that bad... As long as it doesn't go any further. Like not with you, but with him. But if he isn't bothered by it, then you shouldn't either. Plus it shouldn't matter what other people your age think... It's your brother for goodness sake! There's nothing wrong, and they shouldn't care. [:

cheers that helped :-)

[TySpeedy]

cheers that helped :-)

Lol, WootWoot! :D

[wtblife]

This reminds me of when I was 12 or 13 and I was staying at a friends for a week or so (I moved to a different state) and while I was taking a shower he just came in the bathroom to tell me to get out cause I was gonna end up using all the hot water and he brought me a towel. I didn't find that strange at all, but he ended up sticking around for a bit and I was just standing there in the shower with my whole body visible and he didn't make an effort to look away so I didn't make an effort to hide anything. I remember there being kind of an awkward pause so I thought he was waiting on me or something and started getting out and then I think he left.

Anyway I don't think this is weird at all and there is nothing wrong with it at all. I actually think it's good that you can be comfortable around him.

[Azunite]

Try using hot water, the steam will cover the glass and it will make it half visible through :D

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Try using hot water, the steam will cover the glass and it will make it half visible through :D

lol i do use hot water but its been warm weather so the condensation didnt build up as good. plus it above the bath so it isnt all way round the shower so he could see anyway

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This reminds me of when I was 12 or 13 and I was staying at a friends for a week or so (I moved to a different state) and while I was taking a shower he just came in the bathroom to tell me to get out cause I was gonna end up using all the hot water and he brought me a towel. I didn't find that strange at all, but he ended up sticking around for a bit and I was just standing there in the shower with my whole body visible and he didn't make an effort to look away so I didn't make an effort to hide anything. I remember there being kind of an awkward pause so I thought he was waiting on me or something and started getting out and then I think he left.

Anyway I don't think this is weird at all and there is nothing wrong with it at all. I actually think it's good that you can be comfortable around him.

cheers mate......but there aint much 2 cover up when your 13 is there lol

[Kaius]

Tbh it doesn't seem that bad to me. At 7 years old I doubt he'd be interested in anything other than just talking to his brother. Yeah he's probably turned around once or twice but i don't think it'd have any ulterior motives behind it.

[wtblife]

cheers mate......but there aint much 2 cover up when your 13 is there lol

Idk I developed pretty early. I was done growing down there by 14 I believe, but I can't say for sure what I was like at 12 or 13. That could be why he was staring though, I'm sure I had at least some pubes and what not.

[Dalman]

Your lil bro might just be curious- NBD. Have you talked with him bot it?

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Your lil bro might just be curious- NBD. Have you talked with him bot it?

like i said he just brushes his teeth or sorts his hair out and chats while hes doing it, but i suppose he thinks its okay cuz me mum mite pop in and out the bathroom now and then when hes in there. its probs just that he thinks its what happens with familys.

[jjr011294]

hey its ur lil bro its normal i did tht when my dad was in the bathrrom but i was li4or 5 almost 6 u kno and i chated wit my dad lol notin wrong wit it we all got the same stuff rite?

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hey its ur lil bro its normal i did tht when my dad was in the bathrrom but i was li4or 5 almost 6 u kno and i chated wit my dad lol notin wrong wit it we all got the same stuff rite?

agreed

[nick]

Tbh it doesn't seem that bad to me. At 7 years old I doubt he'd be interested in anything other than just talking to his brother. Yeah he's probably turned around once or twice but i don't think it'd have any ulterior motives behind it.
Exactly.

Some people have far too many hang ups about nudity in non-sexual situations, he's too young to give a damn or even think about it so why should you? What would you do if you took him swimming? Relax, its just natural, there is nothing wierd about it at all.

[LittleMonsterMike]

he's 7 he's doesn't see anything wrong with that i'm 15 and i don't see anything wrong with that

[Mikey_bishop]

I think it depends on what you think is normal for you guys. Relationships are different, so if you an your bro dont think its weird, then I wouldnt worry about it.

[Billy15]

Seven year olds are just sweet and innocent and haven't been poluted by society yet, so I'm sure he just feels comfortable with his big brother and thinks nothing of it, so I wouldn't either. My little brother is eleven and we've seen each other naked a gazillion times and so what, we're brothers. I wouldn't worry about it.

[zander]

you're brothers i thnk its totally normal

[Hockeyplayer1]

Dude he is 7. I bet there is nothing sexual about it he is 7. Id say by the time he is old enough to be interested more than just a glance you will be out of the house.

[tinkergenius]

I personally think your Brother is looking...every chance he gets...and this "teeth brushing" is just a COVER, for the questions that are gonna come up one morning.

Be ready to handle it. He may be seven, but he may be mature for his years.

I think you need to get ready for a TON of questions.

[volcomdude]

yeah i think its cool cause i watch our family friends kids who are like my little brothers and im always with them and they have walked in on me before and its like it doesnt even phase him. i think they are to young to think anything sexual so it should be okay

[Hapii]

This seems like a lot of fuss over a little nudity. Quality chat time between you and your brother is much more important than preventing this kind of thing based on what you or your friends might think about it. You have no idea how many families have no restrictions at all on same-gender nudity.

Like the redneck preacher said "If the Maker had intended for us to run around naked, we'd a been born that way". :D

[keas96]

my 9yo bro and i share the bathroom so we're in it all the time together, its no big deal but he said something about my pubes once and i told him he'll get them in a few years...no big deal.

[Judas]

I think it's fine as long as both of you are cool with it. But what if you get an erection?

[Randomchaos]

Okay
1 you're 17 and he is 7.
2 he is probably just spending time with you in his eyes
3 he might get curious about some things so be prepaired
4 you are brothers and it really doesn't matter as long as nothing happens.

[johny88]

If you are not bothered its ok.

[Tadgh]

I do the same with my younger brother. We both look past it, it's no biggie you two are brothers.

[Giles]

Personally I'd feel a bit strange if my brother came and started talking to me while I was in the shower, but then again he is like 24..

I wouldn't say it was bad unless you felt awkward when he was there. As long as you're ok with him being there it's fine.

[shartalot17]

its fine as long as you dont start sexing with each other

[Tadgh]

its fine as long as you dont start sexing with each other

lmfao.

[JimSauce]

That seems perfectly normal to me, although I would find it awkward. My friend is 16 and she has naked talks with her mum in the shower. It just depends on how comfortable you are with it.

[paul48]

i dont think its that big of a deal, as long as he doesn't stare at you.

[Hapii]

And what if he does stare, or ask questions? Who else should he be interacting with in regard to these things that, to him, are innocently natural.

This is not about what's best for you, folks. Be a good brother and consider what is best for him. This is so unimportant, and interaction between you two is so critical for him. It may be that he will be your most trusted friend for the next 70 years. Let's get our priorities straight. My opinion.

My little brother is 3 years younger, and my best friend, kinda.

[karl]

If your brother was a sister, then I'd understand your concern, but I doubt a 7 year old brother, if he's unlucky enough to have seen 'it', would think, 'wow, and I thought I was small!'

[Randomchaos]

its fine as long as you dont start sexing with each other

Agreed! Laughed at the sexing part though xD

[Kontroll]

its not weird or anything as long as youre ok with it
if my brother tried to come in while i was in the shower id be really uncomfortable tho

[DJK22]

course its normal i mean he is ur little bro

[adaman1]

Yeah dude, it is completely fine, and it is important you stay close to him and be a good big brother as he gets older and starts having questions...

[zach_15]

It's not that weird as long as u are both ok with it. It might change once he hits puberty

[Rosss]

I dont think that looking at your cock or even noticing that you are naked and he wants to see whats up in there has even crossed his mind

[neigh]

i think it is sort of weird -- only because u r almost a full grown man and he is only 2 years out of pre school. age range is a little large. but if your family is not hung up with being nude there really isn't any thing wrong with it.

[Alex_.-]

i'll go in and brush my teeth while my bro is showering or vise versa....we have to share a bathroom so it saves time, i don't find it weir, but umm yea we def leave when the other one gets out of the shower, even tho we seen eachother naked a hundred times

idk since he's so young i don't find it weird... i think it's a brother thing :p

[Harley Quinn]

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