Am I?

[disassociation2016]

First off I think l am homosexual but as with any human I have some pretty complex feelings going on. I am attracted to girls in the sense that I dream of having the picture perfect family minus the passionate husband and wife part I wouldn't mind intercourse to get her pregnate but besides that I'm not really intrested in girls I'm not a virgin now because of a guy but that is of off topic anyways my point of this is just to share my story honestly I'm not really longing for gay sex it's mainly for that special relation ship that most guys share with girls just someone to keep code and shade all my personal thoughts with... To bad they don't make many guys like this.

[CuriousDestruction]

I think you are looking for the right guy. i'm going to skip the "don't label yourself as gay or straight" speech and say that some guys also want that connection. actually a lot of guys do. you'll find someone if you look hard enough.

[nick]

It sounds as if you are a gay guy that would be able to have sex with girls, which is how I describe myself really. I completely understand the family thing but really it wouldnt be fair to marry someone just for kids and live a lie if you couldnt be a loving and passionate husband to them. Like Michael said, it sounds like you are waiting for that special guy to come along, well me too, it could take a while, but always believe it will happen.

[Billy15]

Actually they do make a lot of guys like you described because I have met many right here on VT but unfortunately, they never seem to live where we do and that's what sucks. Dayton, from what you post, you and I have very similar feelings and wishes and to be honest from what you said, at least your heart is in the right place and your looking for something much deeper and more real then just sex and I think that is pretty awesome.

[Fruit_Tart.]

i think you need to give yourself some time. you won't be able to find the right guy now but maybe if you wait out and just be patient that one guy your looking for will come. it may take even a year, or two, or a few, but eventually you'll find someone to love. maybe if you think about going to a college with a gay-ish community after you finish high school, that could help. Or you could join a local (if you have one, cuz i don't) LGBT. i dunno im just throwing suggestions out there. :P but i hope you find that guy your looking for and best of luck to you doing that! :D ^__^

[tinkergenius]

I think you're overworking this gay/str8 thing to the max...to the point that you're miserable...or just short of it.

The "sexual act" is meant to provide pleasure..between..whatever..animals, humans.

It's NOT A LABEL...which everyone uses to distinguish STRAIGHT - BI - GAY.

Jeeeessss!!! When are we EVER gonna get beyond the stereotypes, and just concentrate on being happy?

Is there a CHANCE????