This Girl...

[trombone13]

So I read a lot of these "This Girl" posts and only a few have came close to my situation. She and I are both sophomores. We met this year, she transferred from another school. Her best friend, whom I knew before hand, suggested that her and I would be cute together. So we've talked and hung out. I really would like to ask her out. The only thing is, She's never had a boyfriend before. I'm not sure how to come off not too strong but I do want to get my point across. She already knows I like her, and I know she thinks I'm date-able (both of which thanks to the best friend) What should I do?

[THE KiNG]

Well, I might have problems choosing girls, but I don't have problems getting them. What you want to do is invite her to something fun. Don't make it a date. Invite her to play pool with you and your friends, make it clear that she can invite one of her friends and that its not a date, It's purely fun. Show her what a great guy you are and you're not just after pussy and she will be yours in no time. Most important, be yourself...

[ktmay96]

I agree with THE KiNG on asking her to do something fun with other people. Since she has never had a boyfriend before (like me and this is how I understand how she might feel) she might be intimidated by a one-on-one date, and be worrying about things like what you two will do, what you'll talk about, etc. Asking her to do something with you and some other people will give you guys the chance to hang out but for her to not feel nervous or anything.

[trombone13]

Thanks guys. I've been out with her and a friend the past 2 saturdays. She seems comfortable around me, now how do I make her mine?

[Contra]

Talk to her and say: "I had a really great time hanging around with you, I would like to spend some time with just you, to get to know you better, and you would get to know me. What do you think?"

Important: Don't pressure her and keep a friendly and confident look on your face, so she'll feel comfortable and safe.

Good luck :)