Do i seem to attract stalkers?

[Trickster]

Ok i hope this is in the right section but heres goes:
I seem to attract alot of people who cant take a hint that i despise them so much.
2 guys(not at the same time) have got the impression that we were in love, never ONCE did i ever say I love you back or even smile when they said it.
I said either "Ok, whatever" or "Well i dont love you"
I mean is there a reason why some people seem to attract stalkerish people an creeps? Is there something i do? am i too nice?
Also both are taken care of and are leaving me alone, but i do want a relationship and so as to not attract people like them, i want to know what usually attracts stalkerish people.

[LiTTleBrok3nDolly]

your probably just a nice girl who attract random men. That sorta happens to me, im not the kind of girl with bleach blonde hair or fake tan skin or bleached teeth or that slutty attitude. So when very cute guys notice that, they seems to "follow" me around a little. Stankers and creeps are attracted to young and beautiful women. It excites them so my advice? just be on guard, and always be with a group of friends, or with a guy whose a friend. Theres nothing really more you can do unless you wanna go a week without showering and dont wash your clothes and act mean to everyone. Its just something girls like us have to live with. If you need to talk about an incident that is bothering you or whatever, email me, im here for lots of ppl =)

[steve1234]

Trickster, I don't really think the people you are describing are stalkers. Stalkers are the type of people who follow you back to your house, and leave you creepy messages. You can't call people who act a little strange around you stalkers. I don't know if any of these people have done those sort of creepy things i've described, but you haven't really mentioned it in your post.

If im ever around girls that I like, I sometimes cant help but act all wierd. But I'm not the sort of person who would follow them home or stuff like that. Talking to girls is one of the most difficult things for me. Obviously if these boys that like you follow you around, then they are creepy and should be stopped, but not all people who act creepy are psychotic perverts, they just find it difficult talking to girls like an increasing number of us.

Also, saying to someone who likes you "Well, I don't love you" does sound a bit harsh, maybe you could say something like "sorry, but I don't feel the same way".

Well, thats my rant over. If someone you don't like likes you, then you should let them down gently. The advice from LiTTleBrok3nDolly is good, just be on guard for all those real creeps out there.