View Full Version : i love a person but scared my sex addiction mess it up
aspieryan
September 6th, 2010, 07:57 PM
ok well i love this girl :) shes like everything i could want :)
the problem is i am a sex addict bassicaly i not want to be sexual but need to
and i not want to mess up a great relationship because of this stupid problem :( she not know i love her yet but i tell her soon when im not to shy lol
not sure what to say but i bassicaly not want my sex addiction fucking it up if you got questions ask i not sure what to say :( please help
Sapphire
September 6th, 2010, 08:10 PM
If you have a sex addiction then you need to address it. If you don't then it will mess things up for you at some point. Trust me.
Counselling is a good place to start in addressing addictions of any kind. There is an abundance of free counselling services for young people so try finding one near you. The first appointment can be very nerve wrecking but it can be so worth it.
aspieryan
September 6th, 2010, 08:15 PM
If you have a sex addiction then you need to address it. If you don't then it will mess things up for you at some point. Trust me.
Counselling is a good place to start in addressing addictions of any kind. There is an abundance of free counselling services for young people so try finding one near you. The first appointment can be very nerve wrecking but it can be so worth it.
ya i tried online counselling it not help with it :( i guess i should get a face to face counsellour?
Sapphire
September 6th, 2010, 08:35 PM
Yeah, it's easier to build a therapeutic relationship up with a counsellor when you are meeting face-to-face and the whole process of counselling is easier and freer when face-to-face.
Fruit_Tart.
September 7th, 2010, 07:23 PM
yeahh... i was think of that but i didn't know what they were called. :/ i was going to say a therepist but idk what the hell that is. o.o but yeah... go to a counsellor(or however you spell it) and be open about your feeling and stuff. :) best of luck to you dude. ^__^
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