Being Forced to Go.

[Kaya]

So..As most of you know, my mom is currently in the mental hospital. They said shes probably gonna be there for 4 more months. Im extremely angry with her right now (for reasons I dont wanna get into) but I dont want to go up and visit her. Ever. My grandma is forceing me to go. Then she told me that I dont care about anyone in the house except for myself. Then shes shes like "You probably dont even consider us family" or something like that. Then my sister said "Kayla thinks the only family she has is that website shes on all the time" She was referring to VT. I wouldnt make a big deal about having to go if they said "Kayla, your mom wants you to go. Please" I wouldnt have liked it, but Id have went. But...no. Theyre MAKING me go. Thats a bunch of BS. Last time I went mom wanted to see my grandma..not me. So why should I drive freakin hours away to go see someone I dont want to talk to. She hasnt even talked to me since she left. Ugh.

[welcome_to_chaos]

kayla...even tho ur mad at her shes still ur mother and even tho she may not want to see u u should still be there...shes still family :) i know u dont wanna hear this but its truth

[disassociation2016]

Why do parents expect us to be their little ..... I don't even know if theres a word to describe it, but tell your grandmother that you obviously don't need her in your life. I know if you feel this strongly then she must have hurt you. If your grandmother doesn't understand tell her that it will only cause trouble and unless she was abused or mistreated by her mother then she wouldn't understand.