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Asylum
September 5th, 2010, 10:47 AM
my friend Maggie is basically trying to steal my boyfriend. i dont know what to do.. :( i can't trust her anymore.. whenever they are both online she mesages him. apparently she has said things to him like if yuou go to swing dancing with me, i'll wear black and maybe black lace (my boyfriend likes black, and black lace alot). she is even starting to dress like me and talk like me. she wrote his facebook the other day, I misses you :( we need to hang out soon. she even asks him sometimes if i hung out with him that day and if he says yes she gives him a sad face and says but you never hang out with me :( then be like ... oh perhaps that was a bit mean of me to say :) she has said other things but i can't remeber.. i'm just really upset and am finally posting about it she has said it means so much that you like my new hair (she straightened it and dyed it red). she has said to him that she wants to hang out jut the two of them and not include me. note that she is very preppy and now is dressing in black... cuz he and i loveeee black. she listens to pop, but now all the sdden loves marilyn manson because my boyfriend and i love marilyn manson. it's starting to creep both him and i out.. and i don't know what to do. i'm lucky he's honest with me and has told me these conversation thngs.. but it hruts.. becuse she basically killed our friendship :( please help idk what to do.

ktmay96
September 6th, 2010, 11:53 PM
this is a really difficult and awkward situation... uhm maybe you could try talking to her? im not sure what you could say. like maybe ask her why she suddenly likes black and marilyn manson etc. or talk to her about how you feel uncomfortable with her trying to make plans with your boyfriend specifically with out you. don't act jealous and overprotective, but just talk to her about it. and maybe you'll just have to let her go as a friend if she reacts badly to you talking about her sudden changing interests and her interest in your boyfriend. luckily in this situation your bf is honest with you and is definitely not interested in the least in your friend and is actually kinda creeped out.... so at least you don't have to worry about him. but i think that talking to her is the only way to resolve this. i hope this helps and that everything turns out ok!

Resistance
September 7th, 2010, 09:34 AM
try to talk to her, tell her you don't like what's she's doing with your boyfriend.

Nevfx
September 15th, 2010, 08:25 AM
I know Im a dude, not a girl, but if he really likes you, he wont even CONSIDER your friend.