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Acex
September 5th, 2010, 08:56 AM
I masturbate on an average of 1-2 times PER DAY. And I love it!

But this is my 3rd day that I have not masturbated and I must admit, I feel quite....different! Basically:

- I've got much much muuuuch more energy.

- Im inclined to talk to girls more and make contact.

- I try focusing on getting some action other from my hand (and yes im a virgin :( )

- Apparently im nicer with girls but a bit rougher with boys (i tend to punch shoulders a lot as a joke).



But here's the thing... As im writing this, I'm trying to hold off the urge.... What do I do? I need a lot of motivation to stop me for a few more days just to see how I feel after a week or so... I just want to find out, but it's so hard!

Help me out someone...

Giles
September 5th, 2010, 09:35 AM
You want advice on how not to masturbate?

Just don't. If you concentrate on something else like video games or Tv then you won't get the urge. Browsing through this section of Vt definitely won't help though.

Acex
September 5th, 2010, 09:41 AM
Fek, I did it tonight...

Tomorrow, I vow to go for at least 3 days without masturbating. Time to plug in my consoles again and get busy...

The Dark Lord
September 5th, 2010, 11:57 AM
I've tried to go cold turkey but I can never last.

Spoookster
September 5th, 2010, 12:13 PM
i did it for a week and a half :)) trying to beet my own record

Giles
September 5th, 2010, 03:03 PM
I went for two weeks up until yesterday. I suppose it's easier when you're on holiday and you're in a small space with your family.

Personally I love not masturbating just for the feeling when you finally do. Plus the ejaculation... well... all over the wall. Lol.

Judas
September 6th, 2010, 04:27 AM
Just get something else to do. Something that grabs your attention. Games, sport, hanging out with friends, something to put you off the sexual thoughts.

jeffod
September 6th, 2010, 07:10 AM
i could never stop lol

Rosss
September 10th, 2010, 06:53 PM
my thoughts was, you should always try to stop... i tried to stop... didnt work at all.
i had it down to twice a week, not anymore :)

KillerKing
September 10th, 2010, 07:07 PM
I find it's really helpful if you have a busy scheduly of a period of time where like, your constantly out and by the time you get home your sor tired you cant be bothered. But, that's the only time i've ever been able to stop myself.

Beats
October 19th, 2010, 11:34 PM
It's kinda hard to stop, Start a new video game, Go on vacation, Spend time with a girl, That kind of stuff normally helps.

obknobe
October 19th, 2010, 11:43 PM
I've never made over a VERY few days. N E V E R. . .

Art_dude
October 20th, 2010, 04:18 PM
I masturbate on an average of 1-2 times PER DAY. And I love it!

But this is my 3rd day that I have not masturbated and I must admit, I feel quite....different! Basically:

- I've got much much muuuuch more energy.

- Im inclined to talk to girls more and make contact.

- I try focusing on getting some action other from my hand (and yes im a virgin :( )

- Apparently im nicer with girls but a bit rougher with boys (i tend to punch shoulders a lot as a joke).



But here's the thing... As im writing this, I'm trying to hold off the urge.... What do I do? I need a lot of motivation to stop me for a few more days just to see how I feel after a week or so... I just want to find out, but it's so hard!

Help me out someone...


Coincidence.

Don't deny yourself the pleasure of jerking off because you think that incidentally you are nicer to girls and make more 'eye contact.' I'm confident in saying that there's probably no correlation whatsoever. I'm guessing something happened recently where you've become more self confident and you started noticing the personality change around the time you stopped jerking off and now think there's a connection.

But hey, do what you want. Holding off for a period of time can be fun. It certainly doesn't hurt you to see what happens! I just hope you don't trick yourself into thinking it's bad for you or something.

zander
October 20th, 2010, 07:17 PM
i was really upset for the last week and a half, my best friend was away and i could not talk to him and we talk about everything. i got really upset about all the young guys committing suicide and then i came out to my mom and she didint take it well. so i was like sooooooo depressed that i did not jerk off for over a week. i had my second wet dream of my life last night , very messy dont know why guys wnat them, and now things have calmed down im back on my regular schedule of a few times a day

thebill75921
August 5th, 2011, 03:09 PM
Think about how good it will feel to jack off and cum! your load will feel awesome!!

CODfan2
August 5th, 2011, 03:57 PM
i stopped masturbating for a while (i can't seem to find ant privacy in my home) but that just made me even horny-er i watch porn more than ever

Xilo
August 5th, 2011, 05:51 PM
Well I know guys who don't have a problem at all. They can go years, (Yes Years) without masterbating. But I guess for someone who is ok with doing it would probably not want to wait that long.

sdude
August 5th, 2011, 06:14 PM
Well I know guys who don't have a problem at all. They can go years, (Yes Years) without masterbating. But I guess for someone who is ok with doing it would probably not want to wait that long.

No you don't they are just lying....EVERYONE DOES IT!!

Xilo
August 5th, 2011, 07:06 PM
No I could probably swear that they never masturbate. I am totally sure of it. It just doesn't bother them, because they never pay any attention to it.

Xilo
August 5th, 2011, 07:06 PM
Of course those people are also of my religion, and that's how I know.

high-school108
August 5th, 2011, 07:16 PM
ok first im going to try this and all you got to do is stay with people and not alone

audiophile5
August 6th, 2011, 11:37 AM
I can't. I know I'm not an ambitious person and I can't.

Hokage
August 6th, 2011, 12:52 PM
Hmmm I actually am still going it's been 1 and a half week now. I think it's because I met a girl and I'm really interested in her though. And I've been focusing on her.

kuuliluuk
August 10th, 2011, 03:59 AM
I started again an experiment. So far I haven't masturbated for 8 days. We'll see how long I could and how it feels. And if it was worth to try. :D

collapsing_rain
August 10th, 2011, 04:19 AM
my record was 10 days, and it was just unberable when i think about it. now i do it like 3-5 times a week

Solvez18
August 10th, 2011, 04:20 AM
shouldn't this be locked

HungAndYoung
August 15th, 2011, 12:56 AM
best way to not jack off? be depressed. i went 13 or 14 days