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green
September 5th, 2010, 12:46 AM
so ive been going out with a girl for 6 months and im starting to feel that im loving her out of habit like it doesnt feel real. I think she really does love me but im just not sure what to do. Is it right for me to breakup with her or should i keep going for her? help

Rutherford The Brave
September 5th, 2010, 08:23 AM
If you love her deep down then yes, but if your lying to her and only like the idea of keeping her around then no.

KillerKing
September 6th, 2010, 04:41 PM
Totally agree with above. If your going along with a lie your telling yourself then it's unfair to you and her. But if you really love her then i guess you know what to do.

Lights
September 6th, 2010, 04:52 PM
Don't go out with someone just for the sake of keeping them happy, because you're ultimately making things worse. You're being deceitful which is just plain wrong.

Date someone because you love them.

Sage
September 6th, 2010, 04:54 PM
The start of any relationship is filled with intense feelings. Those feelings all eventually die but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the relationship. You've nothing to worry about.

Soccer Girl 13
September 6th, 2010, 05:32 PM
Agreed with all of the above. i don't think i need to add anything.. its simple, if you love her, stay with her. if you don't, leave her.
If your lying to her, telling her you love her when you don't.. thats just gonna hurt her more.
i wish you the best of luck, and hope everything goes well