View Full Version : I have a goal to get her this weekend!
Demented
September 3rd, 2010, 07:10 PM
Hey, I really need everyones help on Virtual Teen! Okay, I am 13 years old, athletic, and decent looking. I'm you're average guy, kind of wild, and funny too. So there is this girl I like, I recently decided that I want to date her. Too be honest, I haven't really talked to her, or hung out with her in a very long time. Just last year I asked her out and I got rejected :/ Anyways, I want to try again. Can someone give me a lot of specific details on what to do?
xHunterXloganx
September 3rd, 2010, 08:57 PM
Try being freidns first and than you can tell her how you feel
Liam_680
September 4th, 2010, 07:11 AM
since you have have had tried it already before, you dont want to let her think that you like her still so you can try to be friends with her at first - and see if there is a chance, if she seems nice and responsive to you when you two chat then you can ask her out again but if she seems a little distant then maybe you need to give it a little more time for her to get to know you first as a friend and make your move later on...:)
Contra
September 4th, 2010, 09:22 AM
If you haven't talked to her in a while and you have been rejected before, by her, you can't hurry it, don't set goals you most likely won't achieve or else they can depress you, if not conquered.
First, you need to start talking to her again, reminisce the times when you actually talked, tell her you rushed things back then and that you would like to get a second chance with her. You have grown up, so has she, so you will be more mature to have a relationship. Don't rush things! Good luck :)
Jess
September 4th, 2010, 10:27 AM
start hanging out with her. talk to her and get to know her more. become friends, then ask her. Good luck :)
Kaius
September 4th, 2010, 11:47 AM
I have to agree with John, if you've been rejected before and haven't spoken in a while you're going to need to take this slowly. When next possible, go up and talk to her. Smile, ask her how she is/how shes been and start up a conversation. I know its easier said than done but once it gets flowing it'll get easier. Just take it one small step at a time, if you rush it you're more likely to be rejected again.
electricfeel
September 4th, 2010, 01:10 PM
I say you should try and start talking to her more, then from there you guys can start hanging out after school. Dont ever ask a girl out that you dont really know, most girls find that creepy (well at least i do). Then once you guys are friends you can tell her you like her, and see what happens from there. :D
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