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Milo1234
September 3rd, 2010, 01:25 PM
I know that being bi means ya like guys and girls but is anyone attracted to one more than the other?

i wondered cause im bi but im defanitly attracted to guys more than girls.

thepieman
September 3rd, 2010, 03:00 PM
Sometimes I can lean more to one side than the other (like I went off girls for a bit when my ex-girlfriend decided to split up with me for no reason :P), but usually I like both. But... I would like to have a proper relationship with a guy, I've had a few gfs but never had a bf - still, there's not much choice where I live, they're either elsewhere or closeted.

shartalot17
September 3rd, 2010, 03:01 PM
that is a interesting question

Malcolm Tucker
September 3rd, 2010, 03:20 PM
Moved :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Kitty Purry
September 3rd, 2010, 03:31 PM
Yeah it's actually prety common for bi guys and girls to like one more than the other. For me personally I like guys more:)

Husker
September 3rd, 2010, 03:38 PM
It's very common to have a stronger preference towards another...I'm bi and I am more into men.

Jendernai
September 3rd, 2010, 03:43 PM
Yeh i'm a Bi guy nd i Guys overall but for relationships and dating i prefer girls!!

LittleMonsterMike
September 3rd, 2010, 07:38 PM
yeah people usually have a preference but for me my preference changes depending on the mood i'm in. If i feel more dominate i usually like girls better if i feel more submissive i go for guys more

adaman1
September 3rd, 2010, 09:08 PM
My personal idea is that my heart is with Boys... I love the idea of a romance and the idea of a true relationship with a boy... I long for the connection, but when it comes to straight out sex I always think of girls (though I wouldn't mind either).... I don't know, I like both, but i want a true relationship (not neccessarily sexual, but an in love one) from other guys... I've been called a hopeless romantic... lol

Jagster
September 3rd, 2010, 09:14 PM
I prefer guys over girls.

KillerKing
September 4th, 2010, 06:56 AM
I usually sort of phase between which i prefer. Sometimes I start looking at guys more than girls and sometimes it's the other way around. So at the moment i suppose i'm undecided as to which i prefer.

DanielBoy
September 6th, 2010, 10:55 AM
Yeah it's actually prety common for bi guys and girls to like one more than the other. For me personally I like guys more:)

Hehe, I love guys, and I actually thought I might be gay, but when I had sex with a girl, that outlook changed. I'm attracted to more variety of girls, like I like 80% of girls and 5% or guys. In another way, I'm more intensely attracted to guys. So in one way, I'm more straight than gay, but in another I'm more gay that straight. I'm really complicated. :P

One_Kay
September 6th, 2010, 01:18 PM
In society, I respect both genders and don't try to like one gender than the other. But in life, you can like one gender than the other. And for me, I prefer guys, but I do respect girls.

Nicky97
September 6th, 2010, 01:34 PM
Id think its very unusual to be attracted to both equally, or in the same way for the same reasons. Few things in life are that clear, at least not in my life.

"Bi" would cover closeted gays also, to some extent. Guys who have not realized or accepted themself yet?

In my way of thinking, theres no such thing. At any given moment you are thinking about one or the other. At any given moment all humans are either straight or gay.

XxMurderedKissesxX
September 6th, 2010, 03:38 PM
Im more into girls then guys.

MacMilker
September 6th, 2010, 03:46 PM
I know that being bi means ya like guys and girls but is anyone attracted to one more than the other?

i wondered cause im bi but im defanitly attracted to guys more than girls.

No one is ever equal.
When people say its 50/50 it's just not true.
I personally, like you lean towards guys, Id date a girl, fool around with her, etc. And I'd do the same with a guy..Which makes me bi. But never in my life would I consider myself 50/50.. So yes its totally normal, everyone leans to one side, even if its just a bit :yeah:

Milo1234
September 10th, 2010, 08:17 AM
Id think its very unusual to be attracted to both equally, or in the same way for the same reasons. Few things in life are that clear, at least not in my life.

"Bi" would cover closeted gays also, to some extent. Guys who have not realized or accepted themself yet?

In my way of thinking, theres no such thing. At any given moment you are thinking about one or the other. At any given moment all humans are either straight or gay.

what do mean. you just completely confused me? are you saying the being bisexual means your sometimes straight and sometimes gay just depending on your way of thinking

Nicky97
September 10th, 2010, 05:59 PM
Yes, exactly. Depends, I suppose, on the definition of straight and gay. Modern science considers it as a sliding scale, with dozens of shades of gray between the two extremes. Whoever you are with at the moment, whoever you are thinking about in a sexual way right then. "Bisexual" is another way of saying "all of the above". I dont mean it doesnt exist, Im saying it exists all the time in everyone, in theory. The comfort, the attraction factor.

ben...
September 12th, 2010, 07:54 PM
Im kinda the same way, im more attracted to guys than i am girls. But i still like girls some-what.

everestclimber
September 17th, 2010, 07:51 PM
Im Bi but lean twords girls

Zero Beat
September 18th, 2010, 03:14 AM
I'ma new found bi (From gay to bi) so i still tend to lean towards (I bold this cause ive found this same spelling mistake a ton of times in this thread already.) the sexeh hunks :D

TySpeedy
September 18th, 2010, 04:15 PM
I go for guyss moree. :D

GagaAlex
October 12th, 2010, 06:38 PM
I lean more towards boys but i think thats because ive only experimented and done things with boys then i have girls

jovien
October 12th, 2010, 06:53 PM
um yea its more common and text book cause bi means two and if u like both at any ratio as long as u like both ur bi lol

NVerson
October 12th, 2010, 07:00 PM
Same with me. Im definitely more attracted to guys physically though i haven't really loved someone.
I guess it's all complicated.

Fourth Dimension
October 12th, 2010, 10:48 PM
im bi lean more toward guys

Blind
October 12th, 2010, 11:17 PM
Im more attracted to boys

josh93
October 13th, 2010, 05:23 PM
Yeah iam bi and iam sort of attracted to boy in away.

Chris_Likes_Drums
October 14th, 2010, 10:35 AM
Bi but I prefer girls over lads Just :P

Patchy
October 14th, 2010, 12:30 PM
Im bi and feel attracted to girls more than guys.

wtblife
October 14th, 2010, 03:17 PM
I go by the gay label at this point in time, but I'm really bi and I prefer guys.

Alex_.-
October 14th, 2010, 06:06 PM
i like both the same really

Normie
October 16th, 2010, 08:38 PM
I am more physically attracted to guys.

Emo_Boii
October 18th, 2010, 05:06 AM
I usually change what gender I like more and atm I like guys more x

mmmark1985
October 18th, 2010, 04:12 PM
Hey Milo,

Yeah i know what you mean. Sometimes Im more attracted to guys than girls but then sometimes im more attracted to girls then guys. I guess the only thing different is my best friend because Im kinda in love with him lol. But sometimes I look at guys and im like umm whatever and then I see a girl and wow shes hot!! Same with some guys to I see some and I'm like wow hes hot so maybe it depends on the person idk.

coleman8r 77
October 18th, 2010, 09:14 PM
Im Bi but lean twords boys a lil more

TheAppleGeek
October 18th, 2010, 10:39 PM
im same i like guys more then girls because i connect with guys more. however i will meet the right girl

SamB
November 9th, 2010, 03:25 PM
Yer I am bi and sometimes i like guys more than girls but other times (more often) i am more in to guys

guil1214
November 9th, 2010, 05:28 PM
Well I lean more to guys. I do like to look at some girl booty once in a while but I like guys better.

yoda
November 9th, 2010, 06:57 PM
I like both the same but maybe a little more towards guys.

NitoJuanito
November 9th, 2010, 09:59 PM
im bi and lean towards guys

Lord_Cosby 13
November 10th, 2010, 02:50 PM
For me,my heart swings. Like right now I'm more attracted to boys than I've ever been and,until just a couple days ago, I couldn't see myself being in an actual relationship with another guy. I still like girls,but for the moment, boys rule

Skorupski
November 24th, 2010, 05:58 AM
Well I am more attracted to guys for now but when it comes time to settle down I wwill want a wife and kids...

JuJu92
November 24th, 2010, 06:20 AM
I go through phases :P

Sometimes I'm into girls more and other times into guys. Depends really, in my High School there were no gay/bi males so by default I leaned towards girls and only dated girls at the time. By the time I entered college a much more diverse enviroment I began to meet more gay/bi guys therefore started leaning towards guys..

Deathwingo0o
November 24th, 2010, 06:27 AM
Originally I liked both equally. Since I broke up I tend to lean towards guys more.

Jecko8675
November 25th, 2010, 11:32 AM
me to dude. i still think girls are cute. but i go crazy when i see a hot guy. mssg me sometimes

Vkid
November 25th, 2010, 10:15 PM
i think i'm more into guys, but that cud just be cuz all the attractive girls i kno have terrible personalities or are sluts -.-

Jiro
November 26th, 2010, 09:43 PM
I'm dating a girl named Cecily, but I still like guys....

Chekz
November 27th, 2010, 02:14 AM
I think it depends~ I only recently felt I was bi...and I have to say I realllyyyyy like this boy more than I ever liked a girl ever except one girl,

Skorupski
November 27th, 2010, 03:29 AM
Well right now I really like this girl and I've liked her the year I've known her, but I still also like this one guy, though not as much.

lost1
November 28th, 2010, 10:06 PM
I'm addicted to both, but I DEFINITELY lean more towards guys.

And I've heard that the same thing happens to bisexual girls; they lean more towards their own sex, too.

mzakpitt
December 20th, 2010, 10:30 PM
oh yes i like guys more than i like girls ..(:

NoLongerInUse
December 21st, 2010, 04:09 AM
for me it depends; but often it usually is 50/50

Mynameisconner
December 26th, 2010, 12:03 AM
I usually fluctuate, which is what I think people were trying to describe. Your not at "all" times exactly sure. That's the whole confusion of sexuality in the first place. Don't feel like you need to rush to attemtp to label or choose instantaenously. I tried that it only complicates things.

ccrunner
December 26th, 2010, 12:28 AM
Someone once told me bi people always go for the dick meaning bi girls are more toward guys and bi guys are more toward guys lol but idk if it true idk if im bi or curious but i more toward girls

lilum
December 26th, 2010, 07:45 PM
its just depends what mood im in tbh

Black Eight
December 27th, 2010, 12:38 AM
I like girls more than guys. But guys give better head.

cyates
December 29th, 2010, 09:35 AM
im bi, i try to deny it to myself but depending on what mood im in i like both, i have a crush on a girl, who happens to be my best friend, but i also have a best friend boy, who i used to like so its hard its up to u to choose.

Skrate
December 30th, 2010, 10:54 AM
Lovin the guys more, here.

60/40, i think. :)

I like girls more than guys. But guys give better head.

That they do... :)

ImBiTEEHEE
December 30th, 2010, 09:19 PM
Im bi, but I like to date girls, and do the dirty with guys.