A little problem...

[thebandgeek]

Ok I have a girlfriend already and weve been casual dating for about a month and a half. A few weeks ago a girl from my high school drum line(the one im in) started throwing herself at me. Literally, she threw my back out trying to keep her from falling and hurting herself. She just wont stop. How should I handle getting her off me?

[Contra]

Tell her to back off, you have a girlfriend, she'll understand. In fact, she doesn't have a choice.

[thebandgeek]

I know, but the next day she comes right back. Shes starting to get REALLY DESPARATE.

[Scarface]

Simple words, annoying girls are annoying :P though on a serious note, you need to have a sit down with her and explain that you're in a serious relationship and you certainly don't plan on getting out of it anytime soon. Tell her you strongly believe in monogamy and that you are not going to throw that away. You have to tell her because if you ignore it she could get worse, or she could get better, but not doing anything about it and finding out is worse. Just have a talk with her and make her understand. Don't be mean about it, but just put it so she understand that you are with someone.

[brennaluvv]

Let her down easy. Rejection hurts, so keep that in mind. Maybe pull her aside and tell her that you have a girlfriend and that she probably wouldn't like it if she knew that that girl was throwing herself at you. And make sure you don't spread it around school, that'd be embarrassing for her. Good luck! (:

[thebandgeek]

Hey thanks everyone. If it means anything, the crisis got resolved without intervention. She found someone who obsesses over her as much as she did me. She actually told me that I couldnt have her as a gf. :P Thanks again!

[thebandgeek]

Hey thanks everyone. If it means anything, the crisis got resolved without intervention. She found someone who obsesses over her as much as she did me. She actually told me that I couldnt have her as a gf. :P Thanks again!
My bad. BF. i hit the wrong button. IM A DUDE!!

[beedubs]

tell her you have a girlfriend and are not interested in her

[Liam_680]

Try being a little distant with her and not being too nice with her so she will know that what she is doing to you is not liked. sooner or later she will know as well her limits and stop bugging you in any way :)