Finding love.

[HelloWorld123456]

Everytime I loike someone they dont like me or it doesnt go any further than friendship. I am bi so it doesnt matter if i am with a girl or a boy.


I really need to find someone that loves me :( It doesnt really necessarily have to be love in a bf/gf way. I need friendship from others because over here I am pretty much hated amongst the guys or my age here.

When i crush on someone it doesnt end in a good way or it doesnt go anywhere at all.

-What should i do ?
-Have you ever ended up in such situations, i.e lonely ?
-If yes, how did you cope ?

Thanks guys :(

[Contra]

You should find someone you trust, even if it doesn't go any further than friendship, you said it yourself that's all you need. This is what I say to pretty much every one who asks these types of questions, but if you can't find someone like that now, you will have to wait, because the right persons to trust like that don't appear all the time. I know it sucks to hear this, but it's what you can do.

I forgot to answer the last two questions, I have felt lonely when I didn't have any one to talk to, even though I have always had a friend to trust, sometimes they weren't available. Back then, I used to sleep my troubles away, and on the next day they would help me or the problems would fade away in my sleep.

Good luck :)

[HelloWorld123456]

Thanks for replying.=)

My issue began when i changed school this last year, i just miss a lot my old friends and here it seems like i cant make new ones :( that i can trust. it seems like i am being disappointed by everyone i meet unfortunately .. :(

[Contra]

Thanks for replying.=)

My issue began when i changed school this last year, i just miss a lot my old friends and here it seems like i cant make new ones :( that i can trust. it seems like i am being disappointed by everyone i meet unfortunately .. :(

Yeah, that sucks... :/

I'm sure there is some one out there in that school that can be your friend. Find someone you think would be interesting, normally are those you least think or that appear when you least expect. Then try to find someone of those you can relate to, someone with who you have common interests or situations.

[Billy15]

John,

Changing schools is rough (I know, I did it) and as an outsider, sometimes making new friends is equally tough because HS kids can be very cruel and cliquish and if you don't row your boat exactly like them (become one of their groupies) it can really suck, so yea I feel for you man.

You know your school and you know the people around there, so it's hard for us to tell you how you can better that situation (especially romantically) (I like that word hehe)
but your not alone and you have friends here, so reach out to us when your feeling low
and have faith that your day is coming and things won't always be that way.

[Liam_680]

Just always be yourself and never be afraid to show concern to someone especially when you really do. try to be nice to everyone but not too much.. you are bound to meet true friends sooner or later. it doesnt matter if you only meet 1 as long as that someone truely is a good friend who will be there whenever you need him :)

[steve1234]

You're still only 16, and many people don't have their first relationship until much older. I'm 18 and still haven't been in a relationship, and I don't think I will be ready for a long time.

Every single crush I have had never likes me back. I liked one of my female friends, and I told her how I felt. She didn't feel the same way, but we are still friends as I valued our friendship.

I'm not letting it bother me so much now (although it still gets me down sometimes), and the the right girl will come along when the moment is right. You just have to be patient.

And teenage relationships rarely last anyway, and usually end badly (judging from other people's experiences).

[Break]

I am at the point where I am just craving some kind of relationship with someone. A friendship... or a girlfriend... I have had some people ask me that I never would have thought would like me, so I guess it helped my self image... but I still said no because I don't like the kind of person they are. (bad mouth, overly-perverted)

So I guess you aren't alone.
It's really hard... I haven't had one of those really close friends in a long time.