Always Just Friends

[Jgalt]

I have a problem when it comes to asking girls out. The problem isn't asking them out, it's that when ever I do they always say they just want to be friends. I get the same reaction every time. They say they're sorry and that they just want to be friends. Then they tell me that I have a great personality and that I will find someone else. But I can't find anyone else. I don't have anyone else that I'm interested in.

[Contra]

The only thing you can do is waiting. The right person will eventually show up, you can't rush things and you can't force girls to like you or date you.
You aren't shy, so that's one step conquered. The next part is to find a girl who really likes you, she will show up, trust me. :)

I know this may sound like an answer you wouldn't like to hear, but it is the truth...

[Scarface]

Well I'm going to agree with Arctic Monkey here. I mean patience is a virtue, even though the some of girls you have asked out have rejected you, don't internalize it as everyone isn't always going to have the same feelings. Though you will find someone as you go along, it just takes some time. Maybe as you go along more in school and find a girl you're more compatible will come along.

Though the fact that you have the guts to ask them out is a great trait, you just have to wait for that right girl to come alone. Don't give up man because everyone will have their chance. Yours just hasn't come yet, but I'm quite sure it will :) If you need someone to talk to I'm always here. Good luck.

[Jgalt]

Thanks guys. I guess that I've just been so impatient. I just really hope that she come's along soon.

[Lostboy]

I got that when I first moved to a new school. but then after a while I built up my self esteem. which is huge. girls love confidant guys. just carry yourself with self confidence dude and girls will come to you.

[Liam_680]

Love cant be found in every corner of the street so its good to keep your options open and do not rush in to things as love will really find its way to you so you just need to be yourself, wait for the right time and the right girl will surely come :)

[Dan_UK]

Thanks guys. I guess that I've just been so impatient. I just really hope that she come's along soon.

Yeah the age old friendzoning, it sucks mightily, I'm also in waiting, it very annoying, especially as I'm the type of person that gets really really lonely and still haven't had a single relationship

how old are you out of interest?

[Jgalt]

Yeah the age old friendzoning, it sucks mightily, I'm also in waiting, it very annoying, especially as I'm the type of person that gets really really lonely and still haven't had a single relationship

how old are you out of interest?

I'm 18. And today, I have officially run out of girls to ask out. I've asked out every girl that I have any interest in, and I've gotten turned down by all of them.

[Azunite]

An advice, if a girl doesn't like you 50% they will tell you thisss

[steve1234]

Like most people have said, you just have to be patient. Thats just the way it is. The right girl will come along eventually, even if you have to wait years. You don't want to rush into a relationship, then realise she isn't the right girl for you.

I am also 18, and I have never been in a relationship. But I have realised that I should just be patient. I think it might be difficult for me, as i'm quite old-fashioned. But, the right girl will probably come along when I least expect it. I don't think i'm ready for this relationship stuff yet anyway.

[dents]

I just told a girl that i liked her, and wanted to know if she wanted to take our relationship to the next level, but she said that it would hurt our friendship what should i do?

[Dan_UK]

I'm 18. And today, I have officially run out of girls to ask out. I've asked out every girl that I have any interest in, and I've gotten turned down by all of them.

Ok, of course it isn't all about appearance, but how much do you weigh how tall are you etc?

My point in asking this is that some people just say "waiting waiting" and although it is generally sound advice, sometimes you need to go out and do something about yourself, as it can hugely improve your self-confidence and therefore the way girls see you and the way you ask them out

[Nevfx]

Dude this stuff happens. This happend to me, A LOT. Eventually I found a girl who felt the same way.

And Danroush, the fact he is asking all these girls tells me he has quite a bit of self confidence.