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Hatsune Miku
September 2nd, 2010, 01:26 AM
I wanted to know who else is like me. Instead of sex, I'd rather just cuddle and kiss passionately. No slipping off the shirts or pants, nothing like that. Just laying down in bed, cuddling, hugging, kissing, all that.

Giles
September 2nd, 2010, 02:25 AM
For me it all depends on who I'm with.
If I'm with someone that I do love, then basically what you've said does play a large role.
Then if I'm with someone that I don't particularly love then sex would be important.

Judas
September 2nd, 2010, 03:55 AM
I think it's just a preference for you.

Lostboy
September 2nd, 2010, 04:13 AM
Thats all i want to do sometimes....i don't think its weird its just another way of showing affection.

Azunite
September 2nd, 2010, 04:56 AM
I am like you lol :D
It is the best thing to think at the moment

Fall3nNotForg0tt3n
September 2nd, 2010, 05:40 AM
yea i'm a bit like that, its not all about sex...
still sex is part of it either way

Errr
September 2nd, 2010, 05:43 AM
thats more, well not more, but it is just as intimate as sex and girls often preffer it more. Plus you dont have to clean up after cuddling, worry about your skill or how long the cuddling lasts..which is a bonus lol

Daniel_
September 2nd, 2010, 07:28 AM
Maybe like... Cuddling in underwear(:

Patchy
September 2nd, 2010, 09:58 AM
This doesn't really fit in p101.

Moved to Relationships and Dating.

Jess
September 2nd, 2010, 10:03 AM
I'm like you. I don't want to have..sex...just what you said..:S

Billy15
September 2nd, 2010, 10:47 AM
I can't really say because I've never been with anyone sexually or romantically but I do know that I want to be in love before having sex and that romantic stuff sounds pretty awesome to me,

AutumnDae
September 2nd, 2010, 11:28 AM
I used to be that way.

I still love love love cuddling and kissing and stuff, it will always be my favorite.

Well, maybe it will be, I don't know. I haven't had sex yet.

However, I'm so attracted to my boyfriend I find it hard sometimes to keep myself from going further than kissing. :P Our relationship isn't based on anything like sex or anything at all, it's just an added plus, that I get to do intimate things with someone I care about, AND that I'm completely attracted to.

Before him though, I never thought I would have the urge to have sex.

laurita_21
September 2nd, 2010, 11:46 AM
I love to kiss and cuddle better than sex but it also would depend on who I'm with and as I get older I'm guessing thats gonna change?

Contra
September 2nd, 2010, 04:23 PM
Sometimes I feel like that too, and it would really depend on the situation we were in. But it is a really cute idea and it would give me a warm feeling for sure.

HelloWorld123456
September 2nd, 2010, 05:20 PM
I really love doing that but you know sex is sex and cuddling is something else. I think it more depends on my mood :)

I love making out and cuddling it makes me feel sort of protected but sex ... is something different :)

Dudeface
September 2nd, 2010, 11:31 PM
Thats is the exact same as me. If I reLly love or likee the person a lot, thats all I would want to do.

Levi scott
September 2nd, 2010, 11:43 PM
yeah i compleatly agree with ya. i would like more cuddleing and kissing and just spending more time doing romantic stuff, and when the time comes make love instead of just sex.

LittleMonsterMike
September 3rd, 2010, 11:22 PM
i think it's great i always wanted to be cuddled instead of jumping right in to it

Bougainvillea
September 3rd, 2010, 11:59 PM
That's the great thing about healthy relationships. I find myself connecting more with my fiancée, just by holding her against me while we sleep. Or we lay in the tub together. And just hold hands. Sure, sex is still great, and a good way to connect. But like you, I prefer just a quiet moment of the little things. Like cuddling. :)

Sage
September 4th, 2010, 02:51 AM
Not to ruin the Kodak moment here, but I actually prefer straight-up dirty fucking. Call me crazy.

nick
September 4th, 2010, 03:30 AM
Well it depends how far into a relationship you are really. There's nothing wrong with just kissing and cuddling, and really there will always be far more opportunities and times when you can do that without going any further. But it would be difficult to be engaging in passionate kissing and cuddling without getting aroused and I'm no great lover of blue balls to be honest. So in the right circumstances I would be lying if I said I always wanted to stop and the cuddling stage.

The Joker
September 8th, 2010, 01:05 AM
Not to ruin the Kodak moment here, but I actually prefer straight-up dirty fucking. Call me crazy.

Most of the time...this. Certain people, I prefer spooning/cuddling.

wtblife
September 10th, 2010, 10:32 PM
I'm more into the whole body/person rather than the sex, but I honestly don't have much fun just kissing :-\

Aves
September 11th, 2010, 06:02 PM
I'm with you Matt. I'd rather just cuddle and kiss, instead of sex.


Sex would be nice too :P

Dan_UK
September 11th, 2010, 10:40 PM
I wanted to know who else is like me. Instead of sex, I'd rather just cuddle and kiss passionately. No slipping off the shirts or pants, nothing like that. Just laying down in bed, cuddling, hugging, kissing, all that.


Either is good

The Joker
September 12th, 2010, 07:37 PM
My answer might change in time, but I highly doubt that a bunch of teenage guys can say they honestly prefer to cuddle/kiss instead of sex.

Ender
September 12th, 2010, 07:39 PM
i like sex, but with the person i love, i like the kissing and cuddling more... sex is fun too though.

ShatteredWings
September 12th, 2010, 07:40 PM
My answer might change in time, but I highly doubt that a bunch of teenage guys can say they honestly prefer to cuddle/kiss instead of sex.

theres ways it can happen... but yes i can see the unlikelyhood of it.

sometimes yes, sometimes no. depends on a lot of shit actually.

Dan_UK
September 12th, 2010, 07:54 PM
Actually the type of person that goes on the internet a lot and uses forums is typically the kind of guy that would get friendzoned, the kind of guy that's the "nice guy" who falls for girls who don't care, and in line with this, the kind of guy that may like cuddling as much as sex

Rutherford The Brave
September 12th, 2010, 07:56 PM
I am a sex guy. Sure cuddling is nice and all, but it can wait. I'm up for the biting, the cloth ripping, the scream enducing, the back scratching, the hair pulling, the deep kissing that comes with sex. I love that stuff, but after I'm up for cuddling and snuggling. Don't get me wrong if you don't want sex I'll snuggle.

lenco12
September 16th, 2010, 11:01 AM
I think it's just a preference for you.

Thats all i want to do sometimes....i don't think its weird its just another way of showing affection.

Nevfx
September 16th, 2010, 12:01 PM
Depends on what THEY want. I'll more than happily do anything with anyone.

For example, my current girlfriend wants sex, sex, sex. We can cuddle when we'ren done with the sex.