What Should I do?!

[TySpeedy]

Okay, there is a guy that I really like my my school. Actually one of my friends. His name is Kole, tehe. ^-^ And I told him I was Bi. And that I liked him, and he said he was okay with that. And that he wouldn't tell. And I told 2 other people. My friend Brandi and my friend Keri. And Keri decided to tell people, so I made up a huge story saying it was fake... And now he probably thinks I was joking around with him. But I'm not, he is cute, funny, and very attractive. [: OMG, during swimming unit when I saw his penis... I had to resist looking at it so I wouldn't get excited. *cough, cough* Anyways!!! I know he isn't Bi or Gay. I just... Don't know what to do. Like... there isn't much too do. I would really like to expirament with him... Or date him. But I know none of that will happen. : What should I do?

[xHunterXloganx]

You should first, after telling him, ask him how he feels about it. He will most likely tell you a lie, but you should always keep your head up! If he says he doesnt know what he feels, or if he is confused about it, than, he is most likely straight. Thats all i can really say with out being a jerk, :P

[nico94]

hey dude i been thru that i bet lotta guys have. my best friend daniel is so good lookin and so awsum to be with it been makin me insane like 4 yrs but hes totaly str8 and i gota accept it. ur rite..not much u can do, sorry i didnt have a magik answer :(

[LittleMonsterMike]

I agree with Nico but...that doesn't mean you can't fantasize about him

[Commander Thor]

Okay, there is a guy that I really like my my school. Actually one of my friends. His name is Kole, tehe. ^-^ And I told him I was Bi. And that I liked him, and he said he was okay with that. And that he wouldn't tell. And I told 2 other people. My friend Brandi and my friend Keri. And Keri decided to tell people, so I made up a huge story saying it was fake... And now he probably thinks I was joking around with him. But I'm not, he is cute, funny, and very attractive. [: OMG, during swimming unit when I saw his penis... I had to resist looking at it so I wouldn't get excited. *cough, cough* Anyways!!! I know he isn't Bi or Gay. I just... Don't know what to do. Like... there isn't much too do. I would really like to expirament with him... Or date him. But I know none of that will happen. : What should I do?

You've pretty much answered your own question here.
If you know nothing will happen between you two, you just have to accept that. I know it's hard, believe me, but there's nothing to do.
Though, as the poster above me said, there's no reason you can't fantasize about him.

[Judas]

Nothing really. You just have to accept that. Unless he comes out to be gay or something as well, all you can do is pretty much imagine :(

[Giles]

Well for one thing, I'd recommend talking to him and telling him that you actually are gay/bi so that he knows that you weren't joking. Tell him all about your friend spreading what you told her not to and just see how he takes it. Thing is, if he's straight he probably won't want to do anything with you; nothing serious anyway.

[DanielBoy]

If you don't want people to know your bi, he may not be the best person to tell. He has already shown he can't keep it to himself, and you may have people convinced your straight right now, but the second time is gonna be REALLY hard to make them think you were joking. If he isn't gay or bi, you should just get over him, and go after someone else.

[TySpeedy]

Yeah...

[adakr]

I think you did the right thing, you told everyone it was fake and hopefully ppl forgot about it. If u want to make sure that Kole knows that it wasnt a joke and that u actually like him, then talk to him in private. If you want to ask him if he wants to experiment or something then you should ask him. He knows ur bi so he would expect that sort of thing from you. If he accepts that ur bi then he will accept everything that comes with being bi. If he says he doesnt want to do anything sexual then you guys can just forget about it and still stay friends. If anyone wants to ask me something or just talk, then email me! :)

[Giles]

If you don't want people to know your bi, he may not be the best person to tell. He has already shown he can't keep it to himself, and you may have people convinced your straight right now, but the second time is gonna be REALLY hard to make them think you were joking. If he isn't gay or bi, you should just get over him, and go after someone else.

I think you've misunderstood slightly here.
He told the guy and two other friends, one of the other friends spread it around. Not the guy.

[bond3108]

Just tell him that you actually are gay, and that you know he isn't but you wondered whether he just wanted to experiment anyway. Definitely worth a try, if not just be friends :)