View Full Version : Hey Girls I Need Your Help!
Silentkink
August 31st, 2010, 08:48 PM
Hey girls since I have moved to a new school I have made a ton of friends, but the problem is I haven't had a girlfriend yet. So we started school a few days ago and I have this girl in my class who is a very nice girl, but she doesn't talk much and seems shy, but I really like her and want to ask her out, but I do not know how to. Me and my friends are going to the movies should I ask her "hey me and my friends are going to the movies on friday and I wanted to know if you wanted to come?" So is that a good way to get things started. We have started talking, but not much so I want to get to know her a little more before I ask her out just me and her. Sorry if this is a long read, but I really need your help right now. Thanks!
brennaluvv
August 31st, 2010, 08:53 PM
Well, I don't know about asking her to come with your friends, I for one would be extremely intimidated by the thought of lots of guys coming along. You could ask her but she would most likely feel uncomfortable since you said she's shy. Why don't you try asking her to go to the movies with you and one of your friends, also, tell her she can bring a friend of her's along. (: I hope this helps, lol.
Silentkink
August 31st, 2010, 09:03 PM
Thanks that is what I am most likely going to do I will take one of my closer friends and tell her that she can also bring some of her friends if she wants to. Thanks for the reply.
khaos14
August 31st, 2010, 09:04 PM
I second that. I think a small group might actually be better and especially if she can bring a friend too. +1 rep point (:
p.s. this should probably be in relationships, but a mod will move it soon anyway, so no worries. (:
kelly820
September 1st, 2010, 02:07 AM
Being the shy girl that I am, i would feel intimidated going out with a bunch of guys so i agree maybe only 1 friend and let her bring a friend. i also suggest doing something where you can interact with eachother instead of a movie though... like maybe bowling or mini golf or something like that. that way you can have a conversation with her and get to know her like you mentioned.
beccaweiser
September 1st, 2010, 03:52 AM
I think she'd love that you'd approach her with the idea of going to a movie, but maybe don't make it the first thing you say to her.
Walk up, introduce yourself, and, if you two hit it off and she seems somewhat at ease, then, yeah, maybe asking her to join you for a low-key "movie date" or "movie double date" would be a nice idea.
Good luck,
Becca
Infidelitas
June 11th, 2011, 07:02 PM
ask her out to the movies but let her invite someone if she wants.
For one thing, your a boy! Secondly, this is a bumped thread.
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