I Do Not Know What To Do Help!

[Silentkink]

Hey guys since I have moved to a new school I have made a ton of friends, but the problem is I haven't had a girlfriend yet. So we started school a few days ago and I have this girl in my class who is a very nice girl, but she doesn't talk much and seems shy, but I really like her and want to ask her out, but I do not know how to. Me and my friends are going to the movies should I ask her "hey me and my friends are going to the movies on friday and I wanted to know if you wanted to come?" So is that a good way to get things started. We have started talking, but not much so I want to get to know her a little more before I ask her out just me and her. Sorry if this is a long read, but I really need your help right now. Thanks!

[TopGear]

The movie idea is good, but if its all guys and just her some times that can be a bad thing. I would invite her but see if she wants to tag along a friend of her own. Thats just my thought.

[bob77]

I agree, you dont want to intimidate her, also she might think your other friends are interested

[GeneralCrash70]

I agree with drew

[Silentkink]

Yeah I that is what I was thinking, I was going to tell her that she should also bring her friends, but thanks for the advice guys.

[TopGear]

Also, Don't really make it a date as much as it is just to get to know her. Make sure if your friends know that you are taking her "out". Make sure you pick or bring friends that are not going to dick around and make her uncomfortable around you or your group that you hang out with.

[Silentkink]

Yeah I know my friends are helping with asking her out and I can trust them not to be a jerk and ruin my chances.

[TopGear]

yeah Ive had that happen where my friends totally cock blocked me and totally ruined any chance i had with this girl i liked

[adaman1]

Always remember, when dealing with relationships with girls... Always get to know them as a friend before you decide you want to date them... Hang out with them at a social event (like a movie) but just as friends... then after you get to know her, and you still want to date her, make your move... It's easier to ask a girl out when you are already her friend...

[LittleMonsterMike]

well i'm shy like that but if someone asked me to go out a do something i would say hell yeah i think she'll do the same

[jjr011294]

wooooohooo 200th post :d and yes thats a realy good way to ask her out then aske her if shes wantss to do it again but just u 2 u kno :) good luck man

[Reverie]

Honestly, from personal experience, I would get to know her in your most common environment first (that would most likely be school in your case) rather than in a secondary environment. If she can open up to you in school, you will have better luck elsewhere.

[Judas]

Yeah, have her bring along another girl.

[Giles]

Although that is a good way to get to know someone, outside of school. I would strongly recommend either suggesting that she brings a long another female friend or you invite another, being in an environment full of guys isn't fun.