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[[chickaroo92]]
August 30th, 2010, 11:35 PM
Basically what the title says.
I love my family like a hell lot, but I am now eighteen, going on nineteen in like five months... and I just need some space, you know? Yeah, I will help out and hang out with them, but sometimes when I need to be left alone, they're like, "Chaya* , come with us... " or "Chaya, do the laundry... make dinner... blah blah blah." It's like... ENOUGH ALREADY. I am happy I have a roof over my head, food, and a loving family. But sometimes I need my independence, you know what I mean?

* My full name. Pronounced Hi-Yah

Spoookster
August 31st, 2010, 06:46 AM
OF course we get you, every1 needs his space. But as long as u live in their house.. u know.. they have their own rules and stuff. :) But.. if you need your space u can always talk to them u know.. tell them that sometimes u are not in the mood for several reasons.

Another solution u can do is to move out, but then u will see that it's rly rly hard to live by urself. :)

Cheers.

[[chickaroo92]]
August 31st, 2010, 08:36 AM
OF course we get you, every1 needs his space. But as long as u live in their house.. u know.. they have their own rules and stuff. :) But.. if you need your space u can always talk to them u know.. tell them that sometimes u are not in the mood for several reasons.

Another solution u can do is to move out, but then u will see that it's rly rly hard to live by urself. :)

Cheers.
Yeah, moving out is not an option. I don't have money to do so, and I don't have a job... yet to make ends meat.
But, thanks. I guess I can re attempt at talking to them, you know, compromise and what not.

Daniel_
August 31st, 2010, 10:09 AM
Look for a job maybe, shouldn't be to hard to find one at 18.

[[chickaroo92]]
August 31st, 2010, 02:17 PM
Look for a job maybe, shouldn't be to hard to find one at 18.
The economy... you forgot about the economy.