First Date ideas?

[Erictw1]

What's a good idea for a first date? I mean, where i live, there's really not much to do… we're next to a relatively large city, though (Maine). I'd like to ask out this girl but I don't have a ton of ideas where. I'd like to save money but it's not really a huge deal. I figure you can't really talk or anything at a movie…

[beedubs]

movies are always good. diner is alittle over doing it, but its always an option. umm bowling and mini golf are fun, but it matters on the person.

[bob skull]

i agree with brain the cinema/movies are always a good choice

[beedubs]

hey bob, my name is brian, not brain :)

[AutumnDae]

Movies are nice, but they don't offer much room for conversation. Plus there's that awkward.."uh, who's armrest is it?" moment if you guys aren't holding hands or anything. I prefer movies to be kept to when you're more comfortable with each other, not a first date.

Fun first dates are awesome. Go karts? Mini golf? Go to the park and have a picnic, try to fly a kite? Make cookies at home? Go ice skating? Ummm, I'm running out of ideas haha. A concert? (In my area, there's free concerts during the summer. Even if it's not a big band, or not even anyone you're into, it might still be fun, good weather, hanging out. Outdoor concerts usually are very laidback, it's okay to talk a little.)

Find a local sports game and go watch it? Hike a mountain?

Anything really.

Whatever you do, if you plan on keeping it a surprise or something, do tell her at least something. Don't let her come in a dress and sandals if you're hiking a mountain. Or if you're staying outside, let her know to bring a sweatshirt or something.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Also if you know she has a hobby of something, could do that with her. Or alternativly try getting her in on one of your hobbies, Then that way one of you can show off a little (not too much) Cause I usually stay at home with a girl and I teach her a bit on drums ( I'm a very keen drummer) and then gives me a chance for a little showing off, which usually gets a wow you're good kinmda response.

And just have fun :)

[Contra]

To me the best is dinner or just hanging out, like going out for a walk or something. Being the first date, you should do it so you would have a better chance to know each other, by being able to talk.

Good luck :)