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zelda64roxx
August 30th, 2010, 05:34 PM
Ok so i have this friend Blake he is cool and I like him. No one knew till someone stole my junal and read it and now when I try and talk to Blake he just shrugs me off anyone know what to do I even denied liking him should I just go back to glanicing at him every so often or try and restore our friendship:confused:

SWMG
August 30th, 2010, 07:24 PM
Talk to him alone and you should tell him that you were confused but now you are cleared up so you can convince him because he might be scared about you

ericboi
August 30th, 2010, 07:38 PM
Put a note in his locker that says you were confused. Then just go back to making friends with him a little at a time. I bet he'll be okay with that.

zander
August 30th, 2010, 07:45 PM
Put a note in his locker that says you were confused. Then just go back to making friends with him a little at a time. I bet he'll be okay with that.
yeah this is really good advise

LittleMonsterMike
August 30th, 2010, 07:51 PM
talk to the boy he's probable scared because he doesn't like you that way and he doesn't want people thinking he's gay let him make the first move towards repairing your friendship don't make the first move

Billy15
August 30th, 2010, 10:16 PM
The problem with one person reading your journal is that now, many people probably know and it's embarrassed Blake. Maybe Blake even likes you in the same way but then there is peer pressure and keeping face and we both know how difficult school can be.

If I were you, I think I would give him space (an occasional hi when you see each other) and let him make the first move. Personally, I disagree with the confused theory because that makes you look like a dits and besides, you do like him (that's honest) so why betray yourself and convert that honesty into a lie? Give him some time and love yourself in the mean time. (wink)

TopGear
August 30th, 2010, 10:22 PM
^^^ This... Give the guy some space. The worst thing I think you can do is make it worse by making things more weird between you and him.

Basically you need to regain his trust in you and just work on it. Don't force anything.

Judas
August 31st, 2010, 03:48 AM
Confront him and tell him what you feel. Tell him that you value the friendship a lot and the last thing you would want would be to lose it.