How to end it..

[SecretHarmer]

So I'm in a relationship with this boy, we've been an item for a month now, but inbetween that we had a break up for a day or so, were ack together obviously but i'm not sure i want to be with him anymore.
He smokes alot, and he got me into it and now i actually enjoy it anyway...
Are relationship is going absolutely nowhere, we act like friends we haven't even properly kissed, he said hes shy and i am too and it just never happens.
I want to end it but how? :(
This is the 3rd time we've dated now. :confused:

[misery_business]

Just break up with him! Tell him it's just not gonna work out with him treating you like just a friend. And then don't date him again... simple :D

[Daniel_]

Walk up to him and say "Sorry, I'm breaking up with you"

But do not, do NOT, do it via text message or facebook or some shit like that, tell him in person or everyone will think your shallow.

[Art_dude]

Telling him blankly, "sorry, i'm breaking up with you" is also pretty shallow lol.

You simply need to sit him down, discuss your issues with what's going on, and explain your dissatisfaction with the relationship. You don't need to be an ass about it but you need to explain yourself.

[Strength]

lol...1 month..geez its not like you guys have been a married couple for years. it cant be too hard to brake up with him..

[Contra]

Tell him something like this: "Look, this break up made me realize I don't see myself in a relationship with you. I mean, we look more like friends and we've been in a relationship for one month, yet we already broke up twice. Sorry, I want to break up with you definetly.".
I think if you explain the reasons he'll understand. Because just saying "I'm breaking up with you" doesn't seem valid to me. It's your call.

[Billy15]

My mom always tells us "honesty is the best policy" so that would be my advice. If it doesn't feel right, if your not happy, if you feel it's not going anywhere then open your heart and level with him but before you do, you might also ask yourself why you went back three other times and how will you feel once he is really gone and you are alone?

Whatever you decide, be true to yourself.