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awesomesauce563
August 30th, 2010, 03:31 AM
So me and my friend michelle have liked each other for over 6 months now its getting close to 7, and we have really wanted to go out the whole time but our friends kept getting in the way since my bestfriend joe went out with michelle over a year ago and my ex-girlfriend taylor went out with me like two years ago, and we are all friends. But my ex said that you cant go out with you ex-boyfriend/girlfriends bestfriend, and my friend joe agreed so we were stuck not going out and it kept coming back up but nothing ever happened. And now stuff with my ex happened over the coarse of the year nothing specificly pertaining to this has resulted in me and my friends no longer being friends with her. So now that none of us are really friends with her it leaves more of a chance for us to date. Ive tried talking to my bestfriend joe about us going out but it really never got us anywhere and nothing happened. and now i keep asking michelle to talk to him cause they're kind of more like brother and sister i guess so i would think she could get him to open up to her and try to convince him i guess. But now michelle has been ignoring me pretty much, she's stopped texting me and flirting with me pretty much ignoring me now and i had asked her if she still liked me and she said yes but shes not as into our relationship anymore...And i want to get back into our relationship for us to go out but since shes ignoring me i can even talk to her about how i feel about how i cant stop thinking about her cause shes my everthing...
so what i want advice on pretty much is
if she or me were to talk to joe, any suggestions on what to say?
Then what should i do about her ignoring me, cause i want to talk to her but i cant if she wont even hear me out and even if she does what should i say

Thanks for reading ha its kind of long any advice on the whole thing would be greatly appriciated

misery_business
August 30th, 2010, 06:03 AM
If 'Joe' ( I think?) Is your best friend and he knows how you feel about this girl I think he shouldn't get in the way, plus he's over her right? So it would only be bad if Joe still loved her. You can go out with you best friends ex's, you can do whatever the fuck you want... plus about your ex? that was 2 years ago! She should just get over it.
If you were to talk to your friend I think you should ask him how he feels about Michelle and what he would feel if you guys did go out and you seem to really like thiss girl so I think he needs to be a better friend. About Michelle ignoring you... err, try talking to her and text her untill she talks to you :D
Good luck :) Hope I helped!

Daniel_
August 30th, 2010, 08:21 AM
"how i cant stop thinking about her cause shes my everthing..."

... Never make someone your everything, because when you lose them, you have nothing.


Putting that out there, I say do what makes you happy. If shes been ignoring you, but still says she likes you, personally, I'd take a more broad approach.

I'd walk up to her and, don't even give her time to talk, just kiss her. Who cares right?

You like her, she likes you, so why not?

And what your "friend" thinks? Who gives a flying fuck? If hes to shallow to not let you date his ex, then tell him you wont be his best friend anymore, so she wont be your best friends ex.

There yah go, my two cents.