I don't know?

[differentduck]

So this guy i have known for i dunno. 3 years, (and i have hardly talked to him ever) asked me on facebook if i was bi or gay. I said no, and he said he was hoping i was so i would be his boyfriend and we could "do stuff"

I don't, but at the same time, I do. this is making me CONFUSED. suggestions?

[myskias]

well if you want to do stuff with him. then do it? but if you really dont want to then dont. the power is in your hands right now you get to make the decision. so just do whatever you think is the best thing for you and whatever you want to do

[differentduck]

thanks, and i don't really know whether to or not. i don't know him well, and thats what makes me not want to. but i have always wondered what it would be like to experiment with another guy and thats what makes me want to.

[Judas]

Then go for it. Weigh out the pros and cons and decide.

[Giles]

Do whatever you want or decide to do. If you think that it would be ok to do something with this guy, then go for it. If you've got doubts then just politely refuse. It's not the end of the world either way.