So This Boy

[zelda64roxx]

:confused:ok so there is this cute guy in my class named blake i dont know if he is g b or s how should i ask about his sexualty? im bisexual

[GeneralCrash70]

Get to know him first, make sure he's comfortable with you asking questions like that before you ask. If ya, then score one for you, if no and he doesn't talk to you anymore, tough break.

[neigh]

if i were u i would just hang around with blake and see what he thinks and the freinds he hangs with. ask around to guys who know blake. take your time -- u will find out soon enough. wish u luck - remember there r lots of fish in the sea. u might find that blake might b a total jerk off --

[Judas]

Get to know him. Be a friend.

[Ender]

Get to know him. Be a friend.

^This.
If he seems open, like he wouldnt mind if u asked, or brought it up for discussion, then go for it.

[Giles]

Why do people assume that you should just wander up to people and ask their sexuality.

You need to get to know the guy first, as you would any potential boy/girlfriend. Try and pick up on the signs.

[doubled]

i agree with benmullet ...first just get to know him :) the you'll see

[TySpeedy]

Score 1 for Benmullet! :D

[adaman1]

I agree with almost all of the other posters... you should always befriend a person and get to know them before you consider dating them... see if you can't be friends with blake first, he may end up being someone you don't want to date after all..good luck regardless

[yoda]

Totally agree get to know him first for bit.

[Fruit_Tart.]

yeah. just listen to all these other guys. :) good luck dude. ;)

[phill1]

yes get to know him first be his friend

[Lights]

Once you know you've got a friend connection with him and he's trustworthy, advance to asking him subtly. It's unlikely he'll be too harsh to a friend, but there's still the possibility.

As long as you don't go up to him and say to him "Are you gay, bi or straight?" bluntly, I think you should be fine!

[zelda64roxx]

thanks everyone for the awesome advice

[LittleMonsterMike]

I would say get to know and be friends with him they jokingly ask him and them start to make it a serious discussion

[SWMG]

You have to be friends first in order to ask that kind of questions and then you can go ahead

[Giles]

You have to be friends first in order to ask that kind of questions and then you can go ahead

I wouldn't even ask a friend that kind of question. Unless it's just where I live, you don't ask questions like that at all.

[Darren1993]

get to know him first and then go for it :)

[swimmerjeff]

Definitely the best advice is to become friends with him.
Presumably you wouldnt be able to test the waters, that is, if he's up to talk about stuff like that, unless you've talked about other stuff before.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Voleurz]

Whenever i run across a guy like that I get his number and text him and have a conversation with him. eventually you just kinda learn.

[xHunterXloganx]

how well do you know him? If you know gime well then ask him

[JimSauce]

Become his friend before asking so it's not extremely rude or awkward.

[wtblife]

I've had people from high school talk to me recently because they found out I'm gay and they are also. Even though I'm open with everyone including strangers, I find the conversations to be pretty awkward because I hate small talk. Some of them come on to me which just makes it even more awkward because I have no attraction to them and I'm not good at dealing with that stuff.

I really prefer if people avoid small talk and just talk to me casually. If someone is interested in me I prefer them to just be like any friend and not act any differently for the most part, I hate being put in a situation where someone comes on to me and I don't feel the same, it's really awkward.

Anyway sorry I ramble, but I think becoming friends first is definitely a good idea. I really have no idea how any of the other stuff I said relates lol.