Jacking off with friend problem

[hallo]

Ok so im really confused on what to do right now and im just looking for some good advice. So i have this cousin that im pretty good friends with and a while ago we jacked off together. And i got to be honest we both thought it was ok and cool and we were both fine with it for the most part. And i didnt really get a good look at his penis (this is becuase we we're watching porn and it was his first time jacking off with a friend and he is also not far in puberty so he wanted to just face a little bit away from each other) but he told me how big it was and i kind of saw it and im like 5 inches erect and hes pretty close to the same. So now i think about jacking off with him again a lot more then i used to for some reason and i want to and im sure he would too and i guess this is just because we are both curious. And to be honest i bet if he like slept over which we do pretty often we would end up jacking off to porn again. But now im not sure what to do becuase i mean i guess i want to and all but im scared that we might go farther then just jacking off together. And by that i just mean we might end up jacking each other off or something. So now im not sure what to do becuase i dont know if thats like "okay" or not and i dont know if ill end up like regreting it or something.

So now my question that i need some answers or advice for is -
-Is it ok if we end up just jacking each other off? (becuase im sure thats the farthest i will go with a guy)
-And does this make me gay or bi or something?
I mean i dont want to be gay or bi and im pretty sure im not because im still ONLY attracted to girls and i would never do anything farther then what i said before.

Please help give me advice

P.S. im pretty sure this is apporpriate becuase im not asking for advice on how to jack of with my cousin or jack of with him or anything so please dont lock or block this post

-Thank you

[Skumar824]

I say u should go for it. I was in a similar position once and we ended up jacking eachother off and it wad great an were still friends. It's doesn't necessarily make u gay, ur just curious like any other teenager.

[Judas]

-Is it ok if we end up just jacking each other off? (becuase im sure thats the farthest i will go with a guy)
If you're fine with it. But don't go further than that.
-And does this make me gay or bi or something?
Not necessarily. It's called being "curious".

[Giles]

If you're just curious and don't intend to go further then in my opinion, it's fine.
Even if you do go further, it doesn't necessarily make you gay. If you didn't plan to do whatever it may be, you still had the intentions of just fooling around.

[Fall3nNotForg0tt3n]

Its Normal nearlly everyone does it sooner or later if its with a friend or family your just curious about what its like

[willrod]

It's perfectly fine- being curious is totally normal. I'd say go ahead with it. And besides, if you do turn out to be gay, so what? There's nothing wrong with that either!

[doubled]

i would agree with everybody else !! i've had (have a same problem)

i'm into women but still me and my friends from primary school we jacked off together sometimes we never jacked off to each other we only tried touching ourselves through our pents and it feels amazing that somebody else touches you there we only did it because we were too young for having girlfriendsbut..and now i have a little problem :
we didn't jack off to each other but i wanna try it because i'm really curious how does it feel so sometimes when iwatch porn i imagine myself jacking off to another guy :/..well i would never go furthet than this no blowjobs no sex! :) i think that thhat doesn't make me gay maybe bi i dont know?? i'm confused too

[fernie]

its fine and youre just curoius

[phill1]

yes i say go for it you curoius

[curt]

it very normal. I have all sisters so me and a friend would jo together since I don't have any bothers to ask about it. we just do it at the same time but not to each other but of course we do look at each other to compare size and how long it takes to cum. I guess it would be ok to maybe do each other just to see what another one feel like but just quick not all the way untill you make each other shoot. and if you're both getting worked up watching girls in straight porn then no not gay .

[LittleMonsterMike]

your good nothing wrong at all

[Daniel_]

I would personally never jack off with a male friend, but a female friend.... I'd think about it.

[Giles]

I would personally never jack off with a male friend, but a female friend.... I'd think about it.

By that I assume you mean you'd masturbate in the same room as a female friend? Not masturbate each other?

[HelloWorld123456]

-Is it ok if we end up just jacking each other off? (because im sure thats the farthest i will go with a guy)

I guess if you're fine with it, its ok.

-And does this make me gay or bi or something?

It doesn't make you gay or bi not necessarily. you're just in a curiosity phase. and dont worry many guys do this.

[DanielBoy]

No, your just curious. It doesn't make you gay or bi, although there is nothing wrong with being that way if you are. :P I'm bi, by the way. It is 100% okay to experiment, and ALLOT of guys do it, so nothing to worry about. :P

[shartalot17]

yeah they are right. it doesnt make you gay or bi

[Billy15]

I'm not going to tell you it's ok because I have no idea if you will regret it later or not, so that decision has to be yours and whats feels right to you. I will say that I think it's probably normal (from everything I read) and I don't think that being curious makes you anything more then just curious.

[chrisB463]

Yeah, I totally agree with what Billy Said :)

[paul48]

i would probably not do that...

[townpartier56]

Do what both of you feels right

[zach_15]

as long as ur both ok with it then do it

[oreolover]

i agree go for it. if it might lead to something and u want it to then go for it . but if u dont wanna then say no and sound firm . just make sure you know ur limits . it doenst make u gay, bi it only makes u curious which is totally normal.

[Dean1]

It dosent make you gay or bi your just curious, and it isnt a bad thing to j/o with another guy, its normal and if you and him are fine with it thats al that matters.

[gooog34]

It's all curious fun :P Just make sure you're both comfortable with it

[Nate027]

Just ask him if he wants to try it out.

[axel3]

do it. if you like it cause it feels good it doesnt mean your gay youre only gay if youre emotionally attached or attracted to the guy

[ryansmith13]

How is it like masticating with a friend? I really want to because I heard it was awesome! I am not gay thought. How do I ask?

[mmmark1985]

yea i think its ok and doesnt mean ur gay or bi or anything. Just do what u guys want to do but if u wanna try it again then just try to get him to watch porn again. but if he doenst then dont push him cause then ud feel bad because he didnt want to.

[BUENA]

Do what feels RIGHT.... not what you think is right. If you think you feel that you shouldn't be gay or bi becuase of current society discrimination....well don't let that stop you because the gay movement is moving very rapidly.....and being gay or bi does not mean you HAVE or abligated to act femine, frisky or what ever you want to call it. JUST BE YOU. BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND WHO YOU THINK YOU REALLY ARE. and If you are one of those guys who act straingt but likes doing things with guys.....then you should go for it.... there are alot of people here who would like to support you and be there for you. : )

[DJK22]

of course its ok....why wouldnt it be. and your not gay or bi unless your attracted to ur cousin

[zander]

yeah its all about what you and your friend is comfortable with

[BoredGuy26]

If you are both fine with it then it's fine, you're not gay or bi, you're just pleasuring yourself...

[man with freaky plan]

its fine, no it doesnt make you gay or bi, although theres nothing wrong with that

[SamB]

I have done this with a friend before and we didi it loads and we never went any further than just jacking off together.

[Nancy Boy]

You are curious, and I don't recommend you go any further than Hand-jobs..

[Cudder]

I guess just think about it

[Dean1]

Jerking with a friend is normal,jerking a friend is normal its called experimenting. And if you aren't attracted to guys then your probably straight-curious.

Dean

[cashman1112]

everyone does it. its nautral and your just curious. its perfectly fine

[coolkid1]

I was in a situation like this. I spent the night with a friend where the first time we j/o together(not each other) without shoeing each other, the second time showing each other, and the third was other stuff. Look if it escatalates, then it isn't a big deal. Let what happens happen. Just be sure you both want to actually do it or you may regret it later.

[twotall]

i was in this same situation its not gay but i wouldnt go to far because that is how i lost being friends with mine we just started not talking so much then now we just dont talk

[Samuela88]

lol thats normal.

[sieg]

-Is it ok if we end up just jacking each other off? (becuase im sure thats the farthest i will go with a guy) only if one of you dont like it
-And does this make me gay or bi or something?not really, your just lending a helping hand.
I mean i dont want to be gay or bi and im pretty sure im not because im still ONLY attracted to girls and i would never do anything farther then what i said before. dont worry man, you love who you love.

[shyed2011]

go for it it can be fun and y never know ya mite discover somehting aobut yourself its a real bounding experence

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