blowjob question?

[Babobobo]

Okay so i want to do stuff with my friend and we can't get condoms but we aren't going that far. We want to give b/j but I'm scared to get like an std from his precum in my mouth? I've known him since we were babies and I'm sure he's never had sex before so what are the risks? I mean I always see guys use condoms for anal but never for oral but i dont get why? can't you still get an std from oral?

So can I do oral without risks and without condoms?

[Continuum]

You can't guarantee your own safety when it comes to STDs, so it's recommended in all sexual activities to use condoms. And, wow o.o

[wtblife]

The main reason guys use condoms for anal is for lube, it is often easier than having to put on lube and bare can be painful without any lube. Also I don't mean to promote unsafe sex, but I think you should be safe with no condom during oral, I actually don't know of anyone that uses one.

It sounds pretty safe from what you describe, even if he did have a std I would hope he would tell you and it is extremely unlikely at 14. It is also somewhat unlikely for a std to transfer during oral unless they're having a herpes outbreak or something, but you should only have sex with people you know and trust.

[Daniel_]

If neither of you have an STD, then go for it.

But ask yourself this, do you really want to put something that has been up other peoples asses in your mouth..?

It's kinda disgusting imo =/

[wtblife]

But ask yourself this, do you really want to put something that has been up other peoples asses in your mouth..?

It's kinda disgusting imo =/

Huh? They haven't had sex and proper hygiene would make this perfectly fine. Oh and probably shoulda have mentioned this in my last post, this is another reason people use condoms during anal, keeps your dick clean.

[fossil]

The main reason guys use condoms for anal is for lube, it is often easier than having to put on lube and bare can be painful without any lube. Also I don't mean to promote unsafe sex, but I think you should be safe with no condom during oral, I actually don't know of anyone that uses one.

It sounds pretty safe from what you describe, even if he did have a std I would hope he would tell you and it is extremely unlikely at 14. It is also somewhat unlikely for a std to transfer during oral unless they're having a herpes outbreak or something, but you should only have sex with people you know and trust.

I agree, you should not worry. You will do just oral. And as you said he hasn't have sex, yet. So...

[DanielBoy]

I really don't think he has any STDs at your age, especially if he isn't sexually active. You can get and STD if his body fluids get in your blood stream, but it really isn't anything I'd worry about at this point. As far as condoms and oral sex, it really doesn't mix. :P Good luck bro. :P

[Nate027]

Just dont let him ejacualtein your mouth

[LittleMonsterMike]

if all your doing is oral then you have nothing to worry about...usually your saliva has enzymes that would kill most STDs. Just don't swallow because it could still affect your throat and stomach.

[willrod]

Well, I was told in my health class that you could get things like herpes, chlamydia, or gonorrhea through oral sex- but if you're sure he's not infected with anything, you should be ok. And they also said you should either spit or swallow immediately- either or, but do it fast.

[Judas]

Just use a condom. You can get them anywhere.

[wtblife]

Just use a condom. You can get them anywhere.

Yeah you can, but I really can't imagine using a condom for oral.

[GeneralCrash70]

The main reason guys use condoms for anal is for lube, it is often easier than having to put on lube and bare can be painful without any lube. Also I don't mean to promote unsafe sex, but I think you should be safe with no condom during oral, I actually don't know of anyone that uses one.

It sounds pretty safe from what you describe, even if he did have a std I would hope he would tell you and it is extremely unlikely at 14. It is also somewhat unlikely for a std to transfer during oral unless they're having a herpes outbreak or something, but you should only have sex with people you know and trust.

Ya, really the only STD that could be transferred is HIV/AIDS, and like wtblife said, that's highly unlikely at 14. But if you wanna be totally safe, they make flavored condoms for that very reason, so that it tastes good and protects... Like toothpaste, lol

[Art_dude]

Well, I was told in my health class that you could get things like herpes, chlamydia, or gonorrhea through oral sex- but if you're sure he's not infected with anything, you should be ok. And they also said you should either spit or swallow immediately- either or, but do it fast.

Not true - just because two people are virgins or sexually inactive doesn't mean they can't contract an STD the first time. It's highly unlikely but certainly possible.

Clearly this is not just some guy you picked up at school. He's a close friend and your'e both going to be sexually responsible. As long as you take the proper precautions should you have anal sex you should be fine. As for the condoms for oral sex - it's kind of over doing it and ruins the point. You're fine.

[doubled]

it's just oral give him a blowjob without a condom and before he ejaculatte put his dick out of your mouth that's simple :)

[fernie]

just dont swallow his cum

[phill1]

you be ok

[swimmerjeff]

You should be fine if he hasn't done anything before..

[adaman1]

With sexual things it's always a good idea to wear condoms, but as far as blowjobs go, I have never worn one, and neither has the receivers of my bj's

[Errr]

you will be fine, i mean the only thing would be, take a shower before so you guys are fresh. thats about it. =P

[Giles]

You can get oral herpes if he's got it on his penis. If you're certain that he hasn't though then you'll probably be ok.

[walpoler93]

it is true that you can get an STD from oral sex, but its true that no one wears a condom during oral sex.

[screammonster123]

i would wait intell you can get condoms but if you cant then i wouldnt give each other b/j, even though you may trust him it is ossible he might have an STD

[Fact]

Please don't bump old threads.

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