Getting back an old friend

[jasjms48]

I lost one of my extremely close friends this summer (Danielle). We had been friends for 3 years I once dated her best friend (Sophie). Well Sophie and I got in a fight and broke up after dating for 8 months. Sophie now hates my guts and made Danielle choose me or her. I told Danielle to choose Sophie and now I regret losing her. I cannot live without her and everyday it becomes harder and harder. I have talked to Sophie and we are on talking terms, but I have not tried to contact Danielle. Sophie said that Danielle felt very bad for stop talking to me and didn't want to hurt me anymore so she will no longer talk to me. Should I just try to forget about her or should I try to be friends again? Losing her felt like someone ripping my heart out of my chest. I have felt heartbreak and death of a family member before, but the pain of losing her as a friend was excruciating. What should I do?

[Deathwingo0o]

Try to get her back if it's your life. Good luck.

[jasjms48]

She probably won't respond to any of my text messages though.

[Daniel_]

Kids and their technology these days...

How about this. Instead of sending her a message saying, "i lik u plz b friendz agn", how about you go and talk to her about it in person?

You say you can't live without her, so think of it this way. If someone literally took your meaning of existence and held it in front of you, would you let him walk away or would you go after it and fight for it?

It's your choice.