i want to ask this girl out but...

[dents]

she has a boyfriend. We are really close friends but i want to take it to the next level. Any advice on how to do so.

[Fruit_Tart.]

how close is she with her boyfriend? i want to ask that first if i may. :)

[dents]

i guess shes close, but she thought he was a jerk for about a month and didnt dump him, so i guess im wasting my time

[NeverTooLate]

girls like jerks so i hear, wait till they break up.

[dents]

now she thinks tht he is great. w.e

[Fruit_Tart.]

yeah. just wait it out. be her best friend. be there for her and show her what you can do to make her happy and all... i betcha if ya do you'll be better than whatever guy she's with now. :) good luck to you! ^__^

[dents]

yea, she told me something that she didnt even tell one of her best girlfriends, which makes me feel good. TY and i hope for the best, haven't had a gf in 5 years... yikes :(

[Art_dude]

I agree with Rainbowkid, don't try anything until they break up which will inevitably happen soon if he really is a jerk. When that happens you get to enter stage right as the best friend. Show her that you can be what he couldn't be. But in the mean time don't get involved in her relationship. Allow them the space and when she's ready in her own time she'll realize you can give her more.

[DarkHorses]

Even if her boyfriend is a jerk you shouldn't interfere with her relationship, especially if you guys are friends. She may lose respect for you that way. I would wait until their relationship ends, because you don't want to make it seem like you're forcing her to choose between you and him. If he really is a jerk then chances are he'll end up hurting her which will lead to the end of the relationship, and by helping her through the aftermath of the breakup you may become closer and she may develop feelings for you. Who wouldn't like a guy who was there to comfort you? Good luck for the two of you. :)

[Demented]

She has a boyfriend, Give up. You should respect that.

[Sage]

She has a boyfriend, Give up. You should respect that.

No. You're better than him and you know it. Throw the idea that she's taken out of your mind. Try flirting with her. If she gives into it, you've earned her intimacy. If not, then you should accept that she is taken. For now, anyway.

[steve1234]

I don't think you should ask her out seeing as she is in a relationship.

But, I think its fine to tell her how you feel without asking her out.

[Daniel_]

Wait until she breaks up with her current boyfriend then go for it.