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ackmedsgirl666
August 25th, 2010, 09:59 AM
my girlfriend might be pregnant and i dunno wut to do
she recently lost her vurginity to a guy i live with and when they had sex he pulled a fast one on her and took off the condom on her
im dating her and i dunno wut to do because this leaves me in an awkward position now. the guy who fucked her wants nothing to do with the possible baby and i dunno how to help her out.....
can anyone help me this its an emergency!!!!!!!

Trickster
August 25th, 2010, 10:40 AM
Ask your girlfriend what she wants to do with the baby if she is pregnant. Im Pro-Choice so there is abortion and other options as adoption. But its her choice what she wants to do, the only thing you can do is stand by her and if that baby does come care for it as best a father you can if possible. You dont have to marry her and really become the dad but you can be man in a little family that might come. But definatly ask her what she wants and ask her if she needs anything.

OnceMoreWithFeeling
August 25th, 2010, 10:46 AM
Like what Trickster said talk to her, find out what she wants. If you want to see if you can be in her and the babys life. That does not mean that you have to marry her just be there for her when she needs you.

Kaius
August 25th, 2010, 10:59 AM
Do the most obvious thing, take a pregnancy test. Don't worry before you find out if there really is something to worry about. If its within 24 hours, take the morning after pill, if not either see a doctor or buy a test from the local store.

ackmedsgirl666
August 25th, 2010, 12:49 PM
we talked
im taking her to a clinic soon
she is gonna keep it and im going to be like the father..
but i have an other gf currently to who i am openly dating and she seemed ok with it
so im just gonna go with the flo and see what happens
thx all for your advice
.......
she just got back from the dr
the tests were negative because they said its too early to tell and told her to come back in 2 weeks