View Full Version : Taking a risk here
Jagster
August 25th, 2010, 12:27 AM
If any of you remember my Hispanic or Bust topic, then you would know my dilemma of a guy I like in my school. Well, I feel like I want to take the courage to start with my Health class to tell that I'm Bisexual.
I'm shrugging it off as, "Whatever happens, happens. It's not going to be the end of the world if you lose friends." kind of thing.
I guess I'm being a trooper. Who else thinks that this is a good thing to do?
ThisIsTomP
August 25th, 2010, 12:45 AM
Do it. They either have to accept you for who you are or don't like you at all, you know?
Jagster
August 25th, 2010, 01:12 AM
Yeah, and if they decide to not be my friend, then they are obviously losing out on a great oppurtunity to be around a guy who has the courage.
chazzrox2
August 25th, 2010, 05:50 AM
You have to "come out" at some point, I suggest first doing it with people you are most comfortable with, people you trust.
After you build up some courage i'm sure that you will have no problem about raising the issue in class, besides if you prepare your friends before hand then it may not come as such a shock
Jagster
August 25th, 2010, 09:07 AM
yeah, I probably should.
JimSauce
August 26th, 2010, 03:35 PM
I don't think you should come out to an entire class before telling your friends first.
Billy15
August 26th, 2010, 10:24 PM
Michael, I think you should do whatever makes you happy and whatever makes you feel complete inside. I truly admire your courage (wish I had more) and your philosophy regarding true friends not caring, sounds dead on the money to me and depending on where you live (how well gay is accepted) it could possibly be an awesome move for you, especially in meeting other gays/bi's in your school. The question is, what will make Michael happy and will making this move make you feel more complete?
Good luck with whatever you decide.
Billy
CuriousDestruction
August 27th, 2010, 06:01 PM
i hate the idea that you "have" to come out. Why is that? why can't we just life normally and love the people we want to love without having this whole dramatic "coming out scenario". If you like the guy and are brave enough to tell him hooray you! Whatever happens because of this it took balls to ask the guy out in the first place. i don't know if you should come out to your entire health class. it seems unnecessary unless you want them all to know. how about you just ask him out and go from there?
Jagster
August 27th, 2010, 08:53 PM
Michael, I haven't learned enough about him yet.
OstrichAficionado
August 28th, 2010, 08:15 AM
Don't ask us, ask yourself. Are you ready to tell them?
Daniel_
August 28th, 2010, 01:21 PM
If there truly your friends, they will accept you no matter what.
LittleMonsterMike
August 30th, 2010, 05:19 PM
If i was you dude i would start out with my best friend not an entire class please listen to this watch out some people could be very rude to you i have friend that almost committed suicide because they where bullied for their sexuality take things slow
yoda
August 30th, 2010, 06:19 PM
I think you should do what you feel like. Being Bi is not a big deal, and it should not be a big deal to your friends for they should not care and just take you as a good friend. I told my friend that i was gay and he was way cool with it. So do what makes you feel happy and complete, should not have to hide something like that, its who you are.
Fall3nNotForg0tt3n
September 2nd, 2010, 04:00 AM
Why do you care what we think??? in the end its up to you...
I would start with my friends but its up to you. if there your friends they'll be proud of you. if they got a problem with it their loss.
-Those who Matter Dont mind, those who mind Dont Matter-
Best saying to get you throught this stuff :) works for me
Jonnyo
September 2nd, 2010, 06:23 PM
i think so. ask a question in the aunonimus box...but not out loud lol
unless its apropriate! :D
Jagster
September 2nd, 2010, 09:50 PM
Well, tomorrow I have to reveal that I'm Bi. Or I can just click through the slides really fast.
Thylacine
September 2nd, 2010, 11:49 PM
Good luck bro. I hope it works out for you.
Jagster
September 3rd, 2010, 09:27 AM
Thanks! :D people who harass me would be violating a school rule.
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