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hallo
August 25th, 2010, 12:11 AM
Ok so im not sure what to do and what is right or wrong. So for some reason i keep wanting or thinking about doing things (sexual) with my girl cousin that is about the same age as me. Is this wrong?

I think she is kind of attractive and i think she is at least kind of attracted to me and if i tried to like make out or do anything sexual with her she would do it too. But im not sure if i should do it or if its ok.

Now if i were to do anything with her it would probably be with my guy cousin and he would probably do it too. But im also not sure if he would do it or be ok with it but for some reason i think he might end up being fine with. And i have jacked of with him before and we both ended up being cool with it. Also my penis is about 5 inches when erect and he is about the same. If i ended up doing anything with my girl cousin do you think she would be creeped or grossed out by the size of my penis? I mean i dont think she would since me and my guy cousin are the same size but im not really sure.

So my serious problem that i need help with is wether this is ok and if i should try doing it. All three of us are good friends with each other and are about the same age and going through puberty and i think we all notice that. We have all talked about sexual things together but not about things we would do with each other. I think that they would both do it as long as i like started it. So can you please answer all of my questions and help me out with this because im very confused.

Also im not sure if i should do it because i dont know if its like okay to have some of our first sexual experiences with 'each other' as cousins. And what if it starts to go to far and we almost or start to have sex. (is that considered incest if we have sex or is it okay?) and even if it is ok i dont think or know if its ok or if i want to lose my virginity to my cousin or for her to lose her virginiy to me. But couldnt we just like, not count what we do as any of our firsts or count it as losing our virginity, (if it comes to that) since we are just cousins and just experimenting? And do you think it would be awkward after? I dont really think so because we are all pretty good friends and as long as we are all ok with it, it would be ok and not awkward afterwards, right? Also im not neccissarily looking to have sex with her, just kind of mess around a bit.

Please help me out. P.S. im pretty sure this is apporpriate for the forums because im not asking for advice on how to get her to do things with me or anything like that.

Please give me advice on my situation though and help answer my quetions.

-Thanks

hallo
August 25th, 2010, 02:42 PM
/bump?

Is this to big/wierd of a question?

Loloboy
August 25th, 2010, 04:32 PM
Wow that is a tough situation which I have also been in. Me and my cousin used to have oral sex all the time and I would finger her until we had real sex. Which was one time. My advice don't do it cuz you'll later regret it.

ray8806
August 25th, 2010, 05:14 PM
I wouldn't do it. It would be VERY awkward. But yea, it IS considered incest if you do anything sexual with one another. I think it's okay if you saw each other, or the three of you jacked off together, but nothing more than that.

the8bitter
August 25th, 2010, 05:37 PM
I have a girl cousin that's a bit older than me (16 maybe?) but she's hot. I just jack off if I get turned on by her- no big deal just don't have sex or otherwise its incest :)

Jockstrap
August 25th, 2010, 07:09 PM
Dont do anything sexually related with your cousin, thats incest.

hallo
August 25th, 2010, 07:20 PM
Dont do anything sexually related with your cousin, thats incest.

Yeah, but i dont really see what the serious problem is if we dont have sex. i mean its just like messing around with each other

Wow that is a tough situation which I have also been in. Me and my cousin used to have oral sex all the time and I would finger her until we had real sex. Which was one time. My advice don't do it cuz you'll later regret it.

Did you regret it? and why?

Judas
August 25th, 2010, 08:59 PM
i wouldnt do it. it sounds incestuous. and risky. just dont. you want to experiment? - do it with a friend.

Nexus
August 26th, 2010, 04:01 AM
I'd advise against it. But, hey, you're going to make your own decision regardless.

If worse comes to worst, makes sure you guys are both okay with it.

DanielBoy
August 26th, 2010, 05:15 AM
Okay, here are my thoughts on it. It is a little different experimenting with someone of the opposite sex, because you run the risk of getting her pregnant. If she is your cousin, you could get into some trouble if you end up a daddy. I personally think if you are both up for it, go for it, just use protection. I don't think it counts as insest, as long as you are the same age and generation, and they are not like your sibling, parent, uncle, aunt, or grandparents. Just use your best judgment. :P

Tadgh
August 26th, 2010, 05:56 AM
It would be best for you to just keep these thoughts as thoughts. You don't want to end a relationship between families! I also have a hot cousin and when I'm over in her house when she's out I often get her pants from her room and bring them to the bathroom and j/o smelling them..

Conner Davies
October 9th, 2011, 04:18 PM
my cousin wants to have sex with me and I want to as well, we’ve both seen each other naked and I've fingered her and she's given me a hand job. We’ve both 13, what should I do??

goug16
October 9th, 2011, 06:41 PM
don't do sexual things with your cousins....it's awkward/weird/inappropriate

Conner Davies
October 10th, 2011, 09:49 AM
thank u for your adivce, when i see her this weekend i shaw tell her to f off and we've to stop it :)

Trinity_15
October 12th, 2011, 03:26 AM
don't do it repercussions are terrible

Conner Davies
October 15th, 2011, 02:15 PM
last night my cousin satyed over and my mum and dad went out to an imporant dinner. so it was just me and her. we looked at porn on the internet and then she gave me a hand job and i fingered her. the i cummed. she looked and the SHE GAVE ME A BLOWJOB!!!! it hurt that much i stop fingering her. then she stop and she really said adn im honesty not making this up, i want u inside me!! were only 13. she even had a johny!!!! were the hell did she get that from!!! she just have been planning this. it was her idea to look at porn. then she started to ride on me!! it almost killed us. then i cummed again!!!

mredgar
October 15th, 2011, 06:50 PM
dont do it,its family

shadowhunter320
October 16th, 2011, 09:23 PM
I've been in the same situation... I have mixed feelings about it. If I got the chance I would but I try to refrain from it. I also have the same problem with my sister in law:( who is 14 years older than me

parkpark
October 16th, 2011, 09:38 PM
yeah dont do it with ur female cuz its kinda werid
but you male cuz although still werid not has werid since u both have the same junk parts

Ambrosia
October 16th, 2011, 09:39 PM
Year long thread bump! :locked: