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Demented
August 25th, 2010, 12:00 AM
I have a problem. I'm dating a girl that I love so much, she is amazing. But She's 14 and I'm 13. I told her that I was 14 too cause I thought she wouldn't date me cause I'm younger. Problem is, I turned 13 a few months a go and she's turning 15 next month. What should I do? I lied, and I'm scared to tell her.

justalovestruckteen
August 25th, 2010, 02:11 AM
Tell her!
its not a BIG age difference,
its just two years,
and who ever heard of someone dumping someone with a year or two age difference, just because of the age difference?
she might dumped you for lieing though,
but still tell her,

aaronbrumbrum22
August 25th, 2010, 02:39 AM
you have to tell her because if you don't she will find out eventually and would rather have had you tell her

Harley Quinn
August 25th, 2010, 02:49 AM
1: be yourself reguadless of your age, if she likes you, I don't think it matters you're a year younger then you said you were

2: tell her before she finds out any other way and it wasn't from you, she'll respect you more for telling her

3: say you're sorry, and hope she'll forgive you, though like I said in 1, if she likes you it doesn't really matter

4: good luck :)

chazzrox2
August 25th, 2010, 05:47 AM
If she likes you as a 13yr old then why wouldn't she like you as a 13yr old? Iy's not that big a difference and it doesn't change what kinda personality you have.
I'm sure if you apologise for lying it'll be okay, if not then she's not worth it really if she can't forgive you for a little thing like that
Hope it goes well

Contra
August 25th, 2010, 09:12 AM
If she really loves you, she won't dump you for such a thing. Tell her you love her so much, and that made you lie so you could be with her. That proof of love will most likely touch her heart. Besides, your ages aren't that different...

Good luck :)

OnceMoreWithFeeling
August 25th, 2010, 10:49 AM
You should tell her, if likes you as much as you like her shewill be able to forgive you. It will be way better if she finds out form you then a differnt person.

fernie
August 25th, 2010, 11:17 AM
honesty is important in a relationship

beedubs
August 30th, 2010, 12:02 AM
i think you should tell her. i meen if she likes you, then there should be a problem. just apologize and ask if she will forgive you.

just a quick story: when my great aunt and great uncle started dating (uncle is directly related) they told my family that my great aunt was 30, same age as my uncle. this year was her 80th birthday. surpise!! she was acctually turning 100. 20 year difference