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UnknownError
August 24th, 2010, 01:40 PM
gross
Fiction
August 24th, 2010, 03:50 PM
You just need to be there for her, and to listen to her problems. It's all you can do i'm afraid. Be there when she wants to talk, be there when she wants a shoulder to cry on, be there when she wants to share her joys and her fears. Let her know that you care. But most of all remember that anything that does happen is not your fault and you should not blame yourself for it :)
Chris_Likes_Drums
August 25th, 2010, 03:17 AM
Yeah I'd agree with Fiction. Just try keep her talking cause when she is talking. she isnt self harming. hopefully.. keep her distracted from stuff jsut by talking. and try talk about other things than self harming when she is in a happier mood. I'm not saying avoid the topic tho, if she wants to talk about it, listen, but if she doesnt just talk to her like normal cause she'll want to feel like she isnt only looked at as a self harmer.
Hope that helped and that she cheers up a bit soon :)
UnknownError
August 26th, 2010, 11:28 AM
Thanks guys. (:
Fiction
August 26th, 2010, 02:30 PM
No problem :)
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