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nickkstar
August 24th, 2010, 06:38 AM
my freind wants to commit suicide..and i dont no how to help her not do it :(
any suggestions???!?!
Sith Lord 13
August 24th, 2010, 06:44 AM
Why does she want to commit suicide? Has she told you?
nickkstar
August 24th, 2010, 06:47 AM
she just hates life and all this stuff and she thinks no one would care if she did it!..but i care so much :(..she has calmed down a bit i think..
Sith Lord 13
August 24th, 2010, 06:57 AM
Alright. The best advice I can give is to try and convincer her to talk to an adult, such as her parents or a school guidance counselor. Other than that, just be supportive of her in her day to day life and remind her that you care about her.
nickkstar
August 24th, 2010, 07:03 AM
yes but the problem is i dont go to her school and i dont see her everday..the only way we usually talk is on msn :(...and i dont if she would tell her parents. so im not really sure :'(
Sith Lord 13
August 24th, 2010, 07:13 AM
Just try to convince her to talk to her parents, or her guidance counselor. If she absolutely refuses, you may need to approach her parents about it.
nickkstar
August 24th, 2010, 07:32 AM
well i dont no..cos her dad..usually treats her bad..but i dont no if shes not telling me other stuff tht i dont no
Sith Lord 13
August 24th, 2010, 07:35 AM
well i dont no..cos her dad..usually treats her bad..but i dont no if shes not telling me other stuff tht i dont no
Define "treats her bad". Is he abusive?
nickkstar
August 24th, 2010, 08:05 AM
well i dont no really she hasnt told me alot about tht..but i think me n her boyfreind have helped her alot 2night :)
Sith Lord 13
August 24th, 2010, 02:06 PM
Try to get her to open up about it. Don't pry, and don't push. Just be there for her. Make sure she knows that when she needs to, you will be there for her to open up to. If he is abusing her, she'll need to tell someone eventually.
nickkstar
August 30th, 2010, 09:00 AM
its ok now!! me and her bf helped her! :)
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