So why am I a gay magnet?

[lightkun]

Im Bi-sexual by the way and it seems to me that I must make it obvious because I am always being checked out by men (well ones who are gay/bi). Like every other time I head into battle creek (city in my area) to go to the mall, it happens. Are men just more obvious when they do it ? Or is there something about me that men like better than women?

[Atonement]

Well, I have two ideas for this.

1. Men are just terrible at hiding that they're checking someone out, which, though may be true, is unlikely.

2. The more likely, is that you think they're checking you out, when they probably aren't, because you may have a false sense of confidence in your attractiveness to men. Not trying to be rude, at all, but I see this happen to quite a few people.

[DarkHorses]

I've heard a lot of times that guys have really strong gaydar when it comes to other guys. I'll be around a gay person and have no idea that they're gay, and then a guy I know will say "he's totally gay." And then later I'll find out he's gay.

They could actually be straight and they're checking you out because they get the sense that you're gay/bisexual. Sometimes when you think someone's gay you kind of stare, and glance over them trying to figure out if they are. xD At least I do. :P

[Billy15]

Did you ever think that you might just be a really good looking guy and gay or not, people are going to notice you, check you out?

I don't know you so I don't know if that's true or not but I do know myself and if someone really cute goes by (male or female) I'm not going to undress them with my eyes lol but yup, I'm going to notice.

[Alex_.-]

lol maybe ur just really hot :p

[Trickster]

Lol well idk but heres a few therioes.
1) Your good looking and people like to look at you
2) Sometimes when someone walks into an area, everyone looks but naturally people are curious as to "who are they?" "Do i know them?" "Are they potentially dangerous" so it may just be curiosity.
3) They may not be checking you out, just looking at you
Sometimes you think people are looking at you when their looking past you.

[lightkun]

So I guess the real question is, is it possible to look as though you are bisexual and it seems to me, it's usually the same people. Like there is this one guy who works in hot topic is constantly looking at me. And when I look back at him, he looks away. Lol. It's funny because my mom is a huge homophobe too... XD

[GeneralCrash70]

I've heard a lot of times that guys have really strong gaydar when it comes to other guys. I'll be around a gay person and have no idea that they're gay, and then a guy I know will say "he's totally gay." And then later I'll find out he's gay.

They could actually be straight and they're checking you out because they get the sense that you're gay/bisexual. Sometimes when you think someone's gay you kind of stare, and glance over them trying to figure out if they are. xD At least I do. :P

Hahaha, it's funny that you mention gaydar because I can easily tell when someone gay. And as for the original post, I'm straight, but I get checked out by dudes alot, dudes that are gay, and I think it's just because I'm good looking, like I've got a nice stocky build, muscular, facial hair, the works, so that could be why you're getting checke out

[lightkun]

Hahaha, it's funny that you mention gaydar because I can easily tell when someone gay. And as for the original post, I'm straight, but I get checked out by dudes alot, dudes that are gay, and I think it's just because I'm good looking, like I've got a nice stocky build, muscular, facial hair, the works, so that could be why you're getting checke out

Why men more than women. Is there like a difference in taste between genders?

[Scooby Dooby Drew]

FF
I need to get my gaydar repaired, it never seems to work for me.

[Billy15]

Well Ryan, I can't speak for girls lol but I am gay and I don't think that gays taste in guys are any different then a girls but I'm really not sure.

Everyones taste is different (like I like boys my age and about my size and I have this weird fetish for longer hair lol) but I also like the way certain boys carry themselves, the way they dress, sensitivity (not acting cool, tough, putting on fronts) and maybe as an individual, you are different (have your own style) and it gets attention but if I had to guess, I'd say that it's more about you being special, different (things that make you stand out) then it is your sexuality or being a gay magnet.

[Jerkface327]

i dont think u should freak over it. i would be glad if ppl were constantly checkin me out

[GeneralCrash70]

Why men more than women. Is there like a difference in taste between genders?

You know, I'm not sure, I guess because it's still not a hugely common thing for gay guys to be around straight guys, and us straight guys just know when there's a difference. It's not negative discrimination, it's just sensitivity to detail I guess you could say

[lightkun]

i dont think u should freak over it. i would be glad if ppl were constantly checkin me out

I'm not freaking. I was merely curious

[LittleMonsterMike]

you could be paranoid and you think men are checking you out but really they might be staring at something or someone else it happens to me when i look at a something nice someones wearing people think i'm checking them out when i'm really not

[katlove]

Feromones (sorry about spelling btw if its wrong) are wat makes ppl
attracted to someone. your feromones might attract men more than
women or it good be just cuz ur good looking to men. another reason
would be wat u might be doing or u might just be thinking it.

[wtblife]

Gay guys won't just check out gay guys lol...

[jefcully]

Maybe if you did not flirt with gay guys you would not always attract.do not think much about this direction.
That is, be who you are. Everybody still loves you.

[xHunterXloganx]

Maybe they noticed you noticen them? Lol, people do thast to me, and im all trippin out over all this weird crap, and they walk away, lol