How do we become friends again?

[Cave Johnson]

I have just been feeling really depressed lately and I need some advice. So, three years ago I met the love of my life. He was everything I ever wanted and more. He was the only guy I could feel comfortable around. Then, we lost touch for a few years but this year, he showed up at my school and we started hanging out a lot. After a few months I asked him if he was straight or not and he said he was bi. I took that opportunity to come out to him too. After we both came out, I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too. We talked for a bit about what we liked about each other and he said that after the weekend he wanted to kiss me for the first time. After we left (we were on msn) I talked to his "girlfriend" that I liked someone who liked me back, but they were taken already. She figured out that it was about her and him and she got really shocked (he never told her he was bi). Since then he hasn't talked to me and it's been 6 and a half months. I feel so bad and I wish I could change what I did. How do I get passed this? (please no " you can't change the past" stuff) and how should I go about restarting our friendship? Any advice would help. If you need more detail, please don't be afraid to ask.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Depression, Loss and Grief :arrow: Family and Friends. I think you will find more relevant responses here.

[CaliKid24]

You can't change the past. BUT you can change your future. Does he still go to your school? Or is there anyway of talking to him? I went through almost the same thing except there was a different reason we stopped talking. But trust me I know how it is. Tell him that you need to talk to him. Make sure not to expect too much. Don't expect for everything to go back to normal overnight. Can you give more detail on the exact reason he stopped talking to you? And if you need anything else feel more than free to pm me.

[Cave Johnson]

Ok, so he doesn't go to my school anymore but I can text him. He never talks to me on msn either although he never did before. So the reason we stopped talking was because he felt like I had betrayed his trust by telling her and he got mad at me for hindering his relationship with her. He told me he was moving and then he didn't. And after that, he made no attempts to make contact with me. Now, when we do talk, he acts like nothing happened but it's not the same anymore. Did that help at all?