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Chris_Likes_Drums
August 22nd, 2010, 02:50 PM
So.. I like this girl, who likes me too.. We've kissed and fooled around in my room. When I asked her out she said she wanted to say yes exept that her friend fancies me too, and doesnt want to loose her as a friend.. I only like her friend as well a friend.. Should I just wait a bit longer and ask again? I asked her friend about it and she is fine with it acuse doesnt want to be selfish or anything... but this girl doesnt believe her.. What should I do?

Fiction
August 22nd, 2010, 03:05 PM
You've kissed? O.o Chris you tell me nothing :P Anyways I think you should try again... and tell her even if her friend isn't ok with it she obviously isn't gonna hold it against her :)

misery_business
August 22nd, 2010, 03:09 PM
How about get her friend to tell the girl you like that she's ok with it?
And about the other girl that likes you, it's possible the feeling will pass fairly quickly now that you would be dating her friend.
Wow that was confusing...did I make sence? lol

justalovestruckteen
August 22nd, 2010, 03:09 PM
So.. I like this girl, who likes me too.. We've kissed and fooled around in my room. When I asked her out she said she wanted to say yes exept that her friend fancies me too, and doesnt want to loose her as a friend.. I only like her friend as well a friend.. Should I just wait a bit longer and ask again? I asked her friend about it and she is fine with it acuse doesnt want to be selfish or anything... but this girl doesnt believe her.. What should I do?

well you can just not date her, or you could just 'hang out'
or you can wait for her to change her mind, but if I was in that situation were I can't go out with someone but we want to be together, we'll work something out,

Maybe just don't date,or date secretly,(but that would hurt the other girl..maybe)

Chris_Likes_Drums
August 22nd, 2010, 03:18 PM
How about get her friend to tell the girl you like that she's ok with it?
And about the other girl that likes you, it's possible the feeling will pass fairly quickly now that you would be dating her friend.
Wow that was confusing...did I make sence? lol

Made sence :) Think I will try that, thanks :) and I hope it will pass cause I really like this girl.

well you can just not date her, or you could just 'hang out'

I'll try that, then if anything does happen to a more permenent basis then might make more stable.


Maybe just don't date,or date secretly,(but that would hurt the other girl..maybe)

I suggested this but she said she'd feel really guilty about it.. which made me respect her loads :)

Thanks everyone for advise