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Alec Thomas
August 20th, 2010, 05:31 PM
So before I start with my story, here is some background.
I go to Jordan High. I am 15 (16 on the 28th). I am "straight" but really I'm gay. Nobody knows, only one person. I talk to guys online all the time, and have only dated one guy ever. My best friend is a closet gay also. Me and him have had several sexual experiences with each other, his name is Brett.
Okay so I like to support friends and go to their sports games and stuff, I have gone to many of Brett's soccer practices and games. There was this one cute kid Bryce who is on his team. I was dating this one girl named Abby. She goes to Midvale Middle. She had a party at her house and invited a few of her midvale friends. One of them just happened to be Bryce. Back then he wasn't "out" yet. A few weeks ago I found out that this cute Bryce kid was gay. He has a boyfriend my age that goes to a different high school. OH BTW Bryce goes to Midvale middle with Abby. So i thought hmm, "How can I talk and hang out with this Bryce kid and everyone still think I'm not gay. It's very hard." So I became friends with my Ex-GF's Best friend, who also happens to be best friends with Bryce. So I kinda got things figured out where me, her, and bryce go to the mall(Yesterday) it was amazing. And her friend Kenzie came too. Me and Bryce ended up alone. OH yeah I also forgot, I added him on facebook and we text all the time now. He knows I am gay. So when we were alone we were talking about gay things the entire time :) it was fun. And then he had to leave and get on TRAX, so I gave him a hug and he whispered in my ear "You're cute" :D Made me so happy. So here is what I'm debating. Should I continue to become really great friends with Bryce and hangout with him as much as possible during the school year? And then eventually go for him, or do I just slowly become friends and not really try at all? H-E-L-P Anything will be nice :) Thanks
- Alec Jenson.

wtblife
August 20th, 2010, 09:14 PM
Whattt... I don't even understand the question, why wouldn't you want to be good friends with him!? Also why would anyone think you're gay for hanging out with him? Even if someone were to think that, who cares what other people think, it is just like anything else. Enjoy your youth and don't let stupid things like that worry you.

justalovestruckteen
August 21st, 2010, 02:27 AM
I kinda have the same problem, except its with a friend who 3 or 2 months ago wouldn't talk to me,

Become a close friend than go for it,

In my case though, I should go slowly cause its a miracle that my friend talked to me yesterday

Alec Thomas
August 26th, 2010, 08:09 PM
So i have an update.. we got really close one sunday, and now he is just feeling guilty because he has a boyfriend. hopefully things will change soon :)

AllThatIsLeft
August 26th, 2010, 08:14 PM
the fact that he has a boyfriend should stop you from doing ANYTHING with him.
if that boyfriend were you, and he was flirting with other guys you would not like it.

Now become his friend yes, but set boundaries for your and his sake, that nothing can happen unless there isn`t a third party involved.

in the end it will be better, even if you have to wait.